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Hi, please feel free to add or amend as many articles as you like Uniforms and Schoolgirl fetish are well withinthe scope of the WIpipedia so feel free to add as much content as you like [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 17:38, 19 May 2006 (BST)<br />
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I added those userboxes for you. They are in the bondage section. Actually, the sound of all the bondage sounds quite interesting to me. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 15:23, 29 May 2006 (BST)<br />
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Thanks for the advice on the userboxes. I corrected the words so that it now reads, "[[Master]] or [[Mistress]]," so it covers both genders, and you're right, I would enjoy the spanking too much. I would e-mail you, but unfortunately only one computer has an internet connection, and I daren't risk it. If I started to recieve e-mails containing such sexual content then I'll defiantly face ridicule. Still I can always contact you here. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 07:10, 30 May 2006 (BST)<br />
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Hi and welcome to thw Wipipedia, and thanks for all your contributions. I would be very happy to make you a sysop as you have done a lot of good work both here and on the Wikipedia. It is our policy to consider people for new sysops after they have active on the system for a month or more. If you don't mind waiting for a couple of weeks I'll upgrade you in mid June. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 09:22, 30 May 2006 (BST)<br />
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I just read your, "Breathing," story, and it was great. Since you've done so much work on wipipedia for so long, I decided to add your name to the, "[[Well done]]," list. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 08:00, 1 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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Thank you very much for adding me to the [[Well done]] list. I've created some new userboxes on types of [[uniform]], however there are some missing entires. As you are into uniforms and bondage, I thought it might be something in your area. The missing entires so are include:-<br />
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:Army fetishism|Army uniforms<br />
:Firefighter fetishism|Firefighter uniforms<br />
:Police fetishism|Police uniforms<br />
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xx 2U2 [[User:ISD|ISD]] 07:47, 2 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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I thought that you might be able to write something about these fetishes, seeing as you wrote the [[Schoolgirl uniform fetish]] article. It could be something along those lines. By the way, I saw that picture of you. You looked so sexy that I think you might have to lock me away to protect yourself. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 07:27, 3 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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I have edited those userbox links. I would also like to apologise for being too forward. I am very sorry and I hope you will forgive me. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 08:50, 4 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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Since you have such an obviously unhealthy intertest in the Wikipedia, I guess I should stop faffing around and make you a sysop :-) [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 18:20, 4 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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I think I understand what you mean. You see, my [[Wikipedia:Asperger's Syndrome|Asperger's Syndrome]] makes it difficult for me to understand what other people really mean, it affects my communication skills. For example, if you were to say to an Asperger's or an [[Wikipedia:Autism|Autistic]] person to, "Hold their tongue," they may think that you really mean it. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 07:14, 5 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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== Thanks ==<br />
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Thanks for helping on the new userboxes. Spelling is never my strong point. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 06:51, 8 June 2006 (BST)<br />
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Thank you for correcting my smelling pistakes and typos. Thank you most especially for the grammar corrections: I can SEE the difference you make but find it very hard to work out the right wording myself. --[[User:Interesdom|Interesdom]] 05:57, 15 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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==welcome msg==<br />
You're welcome in turn for the Deep Throat article. But, since you are an administrator here, I have a question. It does not seem that the version of Mediawiki you're using supports alternate colors on the screen. Since some of the color choices are very difficult for me to read in combination (odd contrasts are the chief problem, I think), I've an interest in making adjustments. Are these possible in some way I've not seen? [[User:Bt|Bt]] 00:01, 25 July 2006 (BST)<br />
:Thanks for taking this up on other users' behalf. [[User:Bt|Bt]] 00:12, 25 July 2006 (BST)<br />
::The problem is solved. See preferences help for a precis. The problem was that I couldn't even detect that there were other choices in the box on the left. Tnaks for intervening. Nice that something was so easily solved. [[User:Bt|Bt]] 19:09, 26 July 2006 (BST)<br />
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==A terminology question==<br />
You told me to ask, so here goes. What is the policy on terms? If any. I was initially tempted to use cock in the Deep Throat article, but decided against it. I have added a note on throat fucking after seeing the oral sex article however. I personally feel that medical terms are to be avoided. We are blessed by a glorious language with several short and powerful words for assorted topics. I would suggest that cock, cunt, fuck, piss, ... be the standard, but some will object and others may object officially. <br />
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Thanks for catching some of the typos on the article. I'm better at noticing them in stuff I've not written. [[User:Bt|Bt]] 20:55, 25 July 2006 (BST)<br />
:It helps some, for which thanks. But not enough. I have no desire to call some idiot prosecutor down on someones' head (or perhaps yours are more sensible than our prosecutors, police, and legislators?). And the prospect of working at length on an article only to have it deleted for misuse of words -- which could have been avoided with a bit of warning -- isn't really a good option from my perspective. [[User:Bt|Bt]] 23:01, 25 July 2006 (BST)<br />
::Having one's own typo patroller is a blessing. Might you be enticed to the US, where the accounting systme is baroque beyond belief, and offers scope for untold fortunes for the wise tax adviser. And of course incidentally, to assume a sumissive position as my typeo patrol expunger (eg, TPE)?<br />
::And of course, I observe a bit of linguistic Imperialism and a resurgence of the terminological question. I resume my prior attitude of indeterminacy on the issue. [[User:Bt|bt]] 19:27, 20 December 2006 (UTC)<br />
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== Userboxes ==<br />
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If you wish to create such a userbox, go right ahead. [[User:ISD|ISD]] 11:39, 23 September 2006 (BST)<br />
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==Main page==<br />
Thanks for main-page editing info e-mail... [[User:AnonMoos|AnonMoos]] 23:42, 4 October 2006 (BST)<br />
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== Hi, thank you for your ==<br />
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welcome message. I hope I haven't done anything wrong and/or messed up pages. (And I hope here was the right place to leave you a message.)--[[User:StardustMemories|StardustMemories]] 00:57, 10 October 2006 (BST)<br />
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== Well, they were just a few typos, ==<br />
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but thanks.<br />
(I just saw I mis-corrected one word. I'm sorry. I'll be more careful in the future.)<br />
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==Wikipedia==<br />
It's proposed to delete the Wikipedia article about Wipipedia: [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Articles_for_deletion/Wipipedia_%282_nomination%29] -- [[User:AnonMoos|AnonMoos]] 20:39, 21 December 2006 (UTC)<br />
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Thank you for your welcome :-). I'm really pleased I was able to add a page about my own admittedly unusual fetish and contribute a tiny bit to the community.<br />
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==Corsets==<br />
I think the only answer to Wikipedia's [http://www.wikitruth.info/index.php?title=Censored_articles censoring] is to create a distinct article on a specialist wiki like this one and then make an external link on the appropriate Wikipedia article(s) to it (such links seem to stay). The article here has to be slanted for BDSM/fetish, though - not just a copy of what might be written in Wikipedia.<br />
This brings me (back) to the entire subject of how this encyclopedia should interpret [[Talk:Neutral point of view|NPOV]].<br />
--[[User:Interesdom|Interesdom]] 22:14, 6 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Thank you... ==<br />
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...for making me feel welcomed. [[User:Faustus Tacitus|Faustus Tacitus]] 00:42, 26 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
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A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:26, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Just a short Thank You ==<br />
Writing on the German Wikipedia I found your articles quite interessting and helpfull. If you should ever need a contact on the German project just contact [http://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benutzer:Nemissimo me]. Kind Regards [[User:Nemissimo|Nemissimo]] 19:42, 13 March 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Reverse Prayer ==<br />
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Just FYI, I know someone who can easily adopt a [[Reverse prayer position]] without any external pushing or influence and without any dislocation. He is generally a very flexible person (e.g. can bend his wrist back so his fingernails go flat against his arm) and can do such things with no strain or effort. --[[User:Interesdom|Interesdom]] 09:21, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
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== email help ==<br />
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I've heard I need to submit an email address for my acount. I figured you would know where it is I am to submit it to. [[User:Faustus Tacitus|Faustus Tacitus]] 23:33, 25 April 2007 (BST)<br />
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==Thanks==<br />
Thanks for the welcome. ;) [[User:Robotman|Robotman]] 15:53, 2 June 2007 (BST)<br />
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== help! ==<br />
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Dear Taxwoman, I recently submitted the TGirls Home Shopping page, I had a warning from you and do not wish to break any rules but I am a bit lost, please can you give me some guidance, I don't wish to upset anyone or get blacklisted. I have been away for a few days and hope you don't think I am an ignorant spammer, I am not and I am sorry for over-advertising. Please could you give me some advice on how best to edit the page I created, and thanks for bringing this to my attention.<br />
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==Honour==<br />
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The reason I removed them is that they are mainly a clothing shop (and have a listing in the fashion section). I didn't think they were notable enough to warrant a listing in the BDSM suppliers page, there are hundreds of stores selling the odd bit of bondage gear, what we want to do is highlight the best. Do you mind if I remove it again? [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 21:16, 2 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== I have just registered! ==<br />
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Hello, Taxwoman. Can you guess who this is? I thought my user name might give me away. Anyway, I decided to join the cause! Hope you will have me! --[[User:Languishing in Despondency|Lycraman]] 12:44, 13 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Added wiki links... ==<br />
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...to the [[Dance]] article. --[[User:Languishing in Despondency|Lycraman]] 21:39, 20 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks ==<br />
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Eeh, thanks for replacing "most" with "mostly" on the [[Executioner hood]] page. That's a really embarassing typo I made there! x.x -- [[User:Schneelocke|Schneelocke]] 13:15, 28 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Question about an image I uploaded. ==<br />
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I uploaded a relevant pic to help illustrate the "Dance" article. Don't know if they'll let me keep it as it is a copyrighted commerical image and evidently "fair use" does not apply in England. What, if anything, can be done about this so that the image can stay? --[[User:Languishing in Despondency|Lycraman]] 00:21, 29 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Dance<br />
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:Balzac already gave me an answer on this. So I think we've solved the problem. --[[User:Languishing in Despondency|Lycraman]] 18:32, 29 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Censorship ==<br />
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Is it that you don't think [[Censorship]] is a "a restriction of people's rights" or that it is so obvious as not to need mentioning. I'm asking because some people are now beginning to see censorship (on adults) as against "fundamental human rights" which is why I wrote the way I did.<br />
(BTW, thank you for the correction of my [[Slave - Personal Experiences|non-existent]] spelling!)<br />
--[[User:Interesdom|Interesdom]] 22:21, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Wipipedia:Stub - article names ==<br />
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I ''think'' that what the para. you removed from [[Wipipedia:Stub]] was trying to get at was to avoid people creating a stub with a name like "A short list of widgets" or "Widgets (stub)". Perhaps you can think of something concise and better than "''Stub articles should have the same name as the full article so that links from other articles can be made to them in the ordinary way.''"<br />
--[[User:Interesdom|Interesdom]] 20:15, 19 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for fixing up the Female-led Relationships ==<br />
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I just wanted to say "Hi" and thanks for fixing up the Female-led Relationships linkage, etc.<br />
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--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 14:57, 19 April 2008 (BST)</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=AbbreviationsAbbreviations2008-04-13T13:42:53Z<p>BottomOut: /* Added CNFM and link Key Holder */</p>
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|:-)||A "smiley" face (sideways); there are lots of variations<br />
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|[[24/7]]||Full-time. Also seen as 24/7/365.<br />
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|AC/DC||[[Bisexual]]<br />
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|AFAIK||As Far As I Know<br />
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|AFAICT||As Far As I Can Tell<br />
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|[[AIDS]]||Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />
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|AP||Age Play<br />
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|[[APE]]||Absolute Power Exchange<br />
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|ASB||[[GoogleGroups:Alt.Sex.Bondage|Alt.Sex.Bondage]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
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|ASF*||[[GoogleGroups:alt.sex.fetish|alt.sex.fetish.*]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
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|ASL or a/s/l||Age? Sex? Location? (impolite Messenger query) [from marketing]<br />
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|AT||Animal Training<br />
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|ATB||[[GoogleGroups:alt.talk.bestiality|Alt.Talk.Bestiality]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
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|ATM||At The Moment<br />
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|ATSL||Along The Same Line<br />
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|B&D or BD||[[Bondage]] and [[Discipline]]<br />
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|B/B||Boy/Boy<br />
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|B/G||Boy/Girl<br />
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|BBB||[[Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar]]<br />
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|BBIAB||Be Back In A Bit<br />
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|[[BBW]]||Big Beautiful Woman (i.e. overweight)<br />
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|[[BDSM]]||[[Bondage]] & [[Discipline]], [[Domination and submission|Dominance & Submission]], [[Sadomasochism|Sado-Masochism]]<br />
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|BF||Boy Friend<br />
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|BFN||Bye For Now<br />
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|BJ||Blow Job ([[fellatio]])<br />
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|BPD||Borderline Personality Disorder<br />
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|BRB||Be Right Back - used in instant messaging<br />
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|BS||Big Smile ''or'' Bull Shit - worthwhile knowing which!<br />
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|BSTS||Better Safe than sorry<br />
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|BT||Ball Torture (see also CBT)<br />
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|BTDT||Been There, Done That<br />
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|BTW||By The Way<br />
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|CB(C&B)||[[Chastity Belt]] / Cock and Ball<br />
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|[[CBT]]||Cock and Ball Torture/Training<br />
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|CCK||[[Coffee, Cake and Kink]]<br />
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|CD||Cross Dresser<br />
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|CFIDS||Chronic Fatigue Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />
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|CFNM||Clothed Female, Naked Male<br />
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|CFS||Chronic Fatigue Syndrome<br />
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|CIS||Complete and Irrevocable [[Submission]] (see also TPE)<br />
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|CNC||[[Consensual-nonconsent|Consensual Non Consent]]<br />
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|CP||[[Corporal punishment|Corporal Punishment]]<br />
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|CT||Cock Torture (see also CBT)<br />
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|CTS||Carpal Tunnel Syndrome<br />
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|D&S or D/s||[[Domination and submission]] or Dominance and Submission<br />
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|DS||Domestic Service (also sometimes same as D/s)<br />
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|DD||[[Daddy Dom]]<br />
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|D/D or D&D||Drug & Disease - normally on a personal as "D&D free"<br />
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|D/O/M||[[Dom]]/[[Owner]]/[[Master]]<br />
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|E&OE||Errors and Omissions Excluded (in other words, if there is a mistake don't blame me)<br />
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|EC||[[Chastity Belts|Enforced Chastity]]<br />
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|EOL||End Of Lecture or End Of Line<br />
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|EOLT||End Of Leisure Time - time to get back to work<br />
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|EOM||End Of Message<br />
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|EMS||See TENS<br />
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|EPE||Erotic [[Power exchange]]<br />
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|FITB||Fill In The Blank<br />
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|FF||[[Fisting|Fist Fucking]]<br />
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|FLR||[[Female Led Relationship]]<br />
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|FTM||Female To Male ([[Transgender|transgendered]])<br />
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|FTMP||For The Most Part<br />
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|FTR||For The Record<br />
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|FUBAR||Fucked Up Beyond All Recognition<br />
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|FWIW||For What It's Worth...<br />
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|FYI||For Your Information<br />
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|G/G||Girl/Girl<br />
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|GF||Girl Friend<br />
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|GMTA||Great Minds Think Alike<br />
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|GNP||Gender Neutral Pronouns, Gross National Product (context!!)<br />
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|GS||[[Watersports|Golden Shower]]<br />
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|GSOH||Good Sense Of Humour<br />
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|HAND||Have A Nice Day<br />
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|[[HIV]]||Human Immunodeficiency Virus<br />
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|HNG||Horny Net Geek - clueless person just out for kicks<br />
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|HOH||[[Head of Household|Head Of Household]] - the [[dominant]] person at home<br />
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|HTH||Hope This/That Helps<br />
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|HWP||Height and Weight Proprotional (i.e.: "normal" build)<br />
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|IAC||In Any Case<br />
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|IAE||In Any Event<br />
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|IANAL||I Am Not A Lawyer<br />
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|IDK||I Don't Know (also FIIK)<br />
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|IM||Instant Message (like [http://www.icq.com/ ICQ], [http://www.aol.co.uk/aim/ AOL], [http://imagine-msn.com/messenger/ MSN] or [http://messenger.yahoo.com/ Yahoo])<br />
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|IMHO||In My Humble Opinion<br />
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|IMNSHO||In My Not So Humble Opinion<br />
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|IMO||In My Opinion<br />
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|IOU||I owe you<br />
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|IOW||In Other Words<br />
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|IRC||Internet Relay Chat - see IM<br />
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|IRT||In Reply To, In Regards To<br />
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|ISO||In Search Of<br />
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|ISP||Internet Service Provider<br />
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|ISTM||It Seems To Me<br />
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|ISTR||I Seem To Recall<br />
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|ISO||In Search Of (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
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|ITMT||In The MeanTime<br />
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|JK||Just Kidding<br />
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|KH||[[Key Holder]]<br />
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|KHYF||Know How You Feel<br />
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|L8R||Later<br />
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|LAM||[[London Alternative Market]]<br />
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|LDR||Long Distance Relationship<br />
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|LDU||''Leather/Denim/Uniform'' fetish - a characteristically masculine style of appearance<br />
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|LFF||[[London Fetish Fair]]<br />
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|[[LGBTQ]]||[[Lesbian]], [[Gay]], [[Bisexual]], [[Transgender]] and Questioning<br />
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|LMAO||Laughing My Ass Off - also see ROFL<br />
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|LOL||Laughing Out Loud - also see LOL<br />
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|LTNS||Long Time No See!<br />
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|LTR||Long Term Relationship<br />
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|M||Could be [[Master (BDSM)|Master]], especially if upper-case or [[masochist]], often lower-case.<br />
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|MPD||Multiple Personality Disorder<br />
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|M/s||[[Master/slave]]<br />
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|MYOB||Mind Your Own Business<br />
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|NC||Non-Consensual<br />
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|NG||News Group / No Good<br />
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|NIMBY||Not In My Back Yard<br />
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|NL||New Leather<br />
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|NLA||National Leather Association (USA)<br />
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|NP||No Problem<br />
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|NS||Non-Smoker (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
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|OHAC||Own House And Car (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
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|OOC||Out of Character / Curiosity<br />
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|OT||Off Topic / Occupational Therapist<br />
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|[[OTK]]||Over The Knee - a lovely position to be [[Spanking|spanked]]<br />
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|OTOH||On The Other Hand<br />
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|OTT||Over The Top (exaggerated)<br />
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|OTW||One True Way (usually sarcasm)<br />
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|P&M||Posted & Mailed<br />
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|PA||[[Prince Albert]] (type of piercing) ''also'' Photo Appreciated (in personal advert/profile)<br />
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|PDA||Public Displays of Affection<br />
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|PE||[[Power exchange|Power Exchange]] (see APE and TPE)<br />
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|PITA||Pain In The Ass<br />
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|PMFJI||Pardon Me (For) Jumping In<br />
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|POA||Power Of Attorney<br />
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|POV||Point Of View<br />
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|PS||PostScript<br />
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|PSA||Public Service Announcement<br />
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|PTSS/PTSD||Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome / Disorder<br />
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|QED||Quod Est Demonstrandum (that which was to be demonstrated) ("so there!")<br />
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|R/L or RL||Real Life<br />
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|[[RACK]]||Risk-Aware Consensual Kink<br />
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|ROFL||Rolling On the Floor Laughing (there are variations)<br />
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|ROTFL||see ROFL<br />
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|RT||Real-Time - see also RL<br />
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|RTFM||Read the F*g Manual!<br />
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|RW||Real World<br />
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|SAM||Smart Assed [[Masochist]]<br />
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|SCA||Society for Createive Anachronism<br />
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|SCB||[[GoogleGroups:soc.culture.bondage|soc.culture.bondage]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
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|SD||Sensory Deprivation<br />
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|SM or S&M||[[Sadomasochism|Sado-Masochism]] or Sadism & Masochism<br />
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|SNAFU||Situation Normal - All Fucked Up<br />
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|SNAG||Sensitive New Age Guy<br />
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|SO||Significant Other<br />
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|SOW||Speaking Of Which<br />
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|[[SSC]]||[[Safe, sane, and consensual|Safe, Sane, Consensual]]<br />
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|SSS||[[GoogleGroups:Soc.Sexuality.Spanking|Soc.Sexuality.Spanking]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
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|STD/STI||Sexually Transmitted Disease / .. Infection<br />
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|SWAMP||[[South West Alternative Market & Party]]<br />
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|TAF||That's All Folks<br />
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|TAFN||That's All For Now<br />
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|TANJ||There Ain't No Justice<br />
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|TANSTAAFL||There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch<br />
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|TBH||To Be Honest<br />
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|TD||[[Top's Disease]] - thinking they are god<br />
|- <br />
|[[TENS]]||Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulator<br />
|- <br />
|TES||The Eulenspiegel Society ([http://www.tes.org/ website])<br />
|- <br />
|TFTB||[[Topping From The Bottom]]<br />
|- <br />
|TG||[[Transgender|Transgender ''or'' TransGendered]]<br />
|- <br />
|TIA||Thanks In Advance<br />
|- <br />
|TIC||Tongue in Cheek<br />
|- <br />
|TIH||[[Taken In Hand]]<br />
|- <br />
|TLA||Three Letter Acronym<br />
|- <br />
|TMI||Too Much Information<br />
|- <br />
|TOS||Terms Of Service<br />
|- <br />
|[[TPE]]||Total [[Power exchange|Power Exchange]]<br />
|- <br />
|TPTB||The Powers That Be<br />
|- <br />
|TS||[[TransSexual]]<br />
|- <br />
|TT||Tit Torture/[[Breast torture]]<br />
|- <br />
|TTBOMK||To The Best Of My Knowledge<br />
|- <br />
|TTFN||Ta Ta For Now<br />
|- <br />
|TTTO||To The Tune Of<br />
|- <br />
|TV||[[Transvestite|TransVestite]] / TeleVision<br />
|- <br />
|TY / TYVM||Thank You / Thank You Very Much<br />
|- <br />
|U&A(&LI)||Used and Abuse (and Loving It)<br />
|- <br />
|VBG||Very Big Grin<br />
|- <br />
|VWG||Very Wide Grin or Very Wicked Grin<br />
|- <br />
|Wiitwd(h)||What it is that we do (here)<br />
|- <br />
|WIIWD||See Wiitwd<br />
|- <br />
|WRT||With Respect To<br />
|- <br />
|WS||[[Watersports|Water Sports]] (see also GS)<br />
|- <br />
|WTF?||What the Fuck??<br />
|- <br />
|WYSIWYG||What You See Is What You Get<br />
|- <br />
|YKINMK||Your [[Kink]] Is Not My [[Kink]]<br />
|- <br />
|[[YKIOK,IJNMK]]||Your [[Kink]] is OK, It's Just Not My [[Kink]]<br />
|- <br />
|YMBJ||You Must Be Joking<br />
|- <br />
|YMMV||Your Mileage May Vary (i.e. I am happy for you to think otherwise)<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
==Other Resources==<br />
*[http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/dictindx.htm The Deviant's Dictionary]<br />
*[http://www.gaarde.org/acronyms/ Internet Acronyms Dictionary]<br />
<br />
[[Category:AltSex]]<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
[[Category:Fetish]]<br />
[[Category:Health]]<br />
[[Category:Other Topics]]<br />
[[Category:Sexual Techniques]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Key_holderKey holder2008-04-13T13:38:40Z<p>BottomOut: /* External Links */</p>
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<div>A '''Key Holder''' is someone, usually a female, that holds the key to a man's [[chastity belt]].<br />
<br />
==Also See==<br />
<br />
*[[Chastity Belt]]<br />
*[[Chastity Belts]]<br />
*[[Orgasm Control]]<br />
*[[Orgasm Denial]]<br />
<br />
==External Links==<br />
<br />
*[http://www.chastitytube.com/info.html Who is your Keyholder and Why are you Latched?]<br />
<br />
[[category:BDSM]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Erotic_sexual_denialErotic sexual denial2008-04-13T13:12:34Z<p>BottomOut: /* External links - added lock n' keep and chastity lifestyle essay*/</p>
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<div>'''Orgasm denial''' is a [[sexual practice]] where a person is kept in the [[wikipedia:plateau phase|plateau phase]] of the [[wikipedia:human sexual response cycle|human sexual response cycle]] for an extended length of time. This is often done as part of a [[BDSM]] game. Depending on the nature of the game, they may be allowed an [[orgasm]] at the end (in which case, the orgasm is generally much stronger than normal); or deliberately denied one either by [[deflation]] (in a male) or by granting only a [[ruined orgasm]], in which case they will generally feel strong feelings of [[sexual frustration]] and [[submission]].<br />
<br />
An alternative form of orgasm denial is '''erotic sexual denial''', the prevention of genital stimulation, either for an extended period or separate from a [[scene]]. Lack of stimulation is ensured by using a [[Chastity Belts|chastity belt]] or other device that physically prevents touch and/or (for males) [[erection]].<br />
<br />
== Long term denial ==<br />
<br />
It is said that males can be kept in denial for extended periods of up to several weeks (periods around 2 - 4 weeks each time are often quoted as being trouble free), although there will be an emotional and psychological impact from the artificial suppression of such a powerful drive. <br />
<br />
The long term consequences for period beyond that are unclear, most sources seem to agree that the body will spontaneously resorb sperm, but that the [[prostate]] fluids should be removed regularly to reduce the later risk of cancer [http://www.chainedmale.net/chastity/chastity_health.htm] (known as "[[wikipedia:prostatic milking|prostatic milking]]"). It is also said that if erection is inhibited for long periods penis skin becomes less elastic which may cause pain or other difficulty in the future when erections are again permitted.<br />
<br />
For females, the impact of long term denial seems to be mostly emotional and psychological, since there is no equivalent of prostate buildup or erection denial involved. Many who have become accustomed to orgasmic relief report being 'turned off' emotionally as well. <br />
<br />
{{Wikipedia|Erotic_sexual_denial}}<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
* [[Chastity Belts]]<br />
* [[Orgasm Control]]<br />
* [[Tease and denial]]<br />
<br />
== External links ==<br />
<br />
* [http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/ Classic website for the subject]<br />
* [http://www.orgasmdenial.com/ Another website dedicated to the subject]<br />
* [http://www.locknkeep.com/ Lock n' Keep community]<br />
* [http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html Women's guide (amusing and intriguing)]<br />
* [http://theworldofdenial.blogspot.com/ Orgasm Denial Contest]<br />
* [http://femaleconsensus.blogspot.com/ The Female Consensus - Chastity for the Perfect Marriage]<br />
* [http://www.msrika.com/joy.htm Ms. Rika - The Joy of Denial]<br />
* [http://www.cockcontrol.com/long_term_chastity.html Essay - The Chastity Lifestyle: Couples who Practice Long Term Chastity]<br />
<br />
==Other references==<br />
<br />
*[http://www.lulu.com/content/36837 ''Around Her Finger'' by Ken Addison] A non-threatening "semi-vanilla" book exploring the subject. From the publisher:<br />
:''"An entertaining and practical guide to relationships ... While this book does contain some mature themes, it is extremely non-threatening and is intended for a general audience"''<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Key_holderKey holder2008-04-13T12:58:19Z<p>BottomOut: </p>
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<div>A '''Key Holder''' is someone, usually a female, that holds the key to a man's [[chastity belt]].<br />
<br />
==Also See==<br />
<br />
*[[Chastity Belt]]<br />
*[[Chastity Belts]]<br />
*[[Orgasm Control]]<br />
*[[Orgasm Denial]]<br />
<br />
==External Links==<br />
<br />
*http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/ Lots of info about chastity devices, non commercial.<br />
<br />
[[category:BDSM]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=AbbreviationsAbbreviations2008-04-13T12:41:08Z<p>BottomOut: /* added FLR */</p>
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<div>{| border=1 cellpadding=1 cellspacing=0 style="text-align:left"<br />
|- style="background-color:#F0F0F0;text-align:center;font-weight:bold;font-color:#000000;"<br />
|Characters||Meaning<br />
|- <br />
|<g>||grin<br />
|- <br />
|:-)||A "smiley" face (sideways); there are lots of variations<br />
|- <br />
|[[24/7]]||Full-time. Also seen as 24/7/365.<br />
|- <br />
|AC/DC||[[Bisexual]]<br />
|- <br />
|AFAIK||As Far As I Know<br />
|- <br />
|AFAICT||As Far As I Can Tell<br />
|- <br />
|[[AIDS]]||Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />
|- <br />
|AKA||Also Known As<br />
|- <br />
|ALMS||[[GoogleGroups:alt.lifestyle.master.slave|alt.lifestyle.master.slave]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|AP||Age Play<br />
|- <br />
|[[APE]]||Absolute Power Exchange<br />
|- <br />
|ASAP||As Soon As Possible<br />
|- <br />
|ASB||[[GoogleGroups:Alt.Sex.Bondage|Alt.Sex.Bondage]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|ASF*||[[GoogleGroups:alt.sex.fetish|alt.sex.fetish.*]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|ASL or a/s/l||Age? Sex? Location? (impolite Messenger query) [from marketing]<br />
|- <br />
|AT||Animal Training<br />
|- <br />
|ATB||[[GoogleGroups:alt.talk.bestiality|Alt.Talk.Bestiality]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|ATM||At The Moment<br />
|- <br />
|ATSL||Along The Same Line<br />
|- <br />
|B&D or BD||[[Bondage]] and [[Discipline]]<br />
|- <br />
|B/B||Boy/Boy<br />
|- <br />
|B/G||Boy/Girl<br />
|- <br />
|BBB||[[Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar]]<br />
|- <br />
|BBIAB||Be Back In A Bit<br />
|- <br />
|[[BBW]]||Big Beautiful Woman (i.e. overweight)<br />
|- <br />
|[[BDSM]]||[[Bondage]] & [[Discipline]], [[Domination and submission|Dominance & Submission]], [[Sadomasochism|Sado-Masochism]]<br />
|- <br />
|BF||Boy Friend<br />
|- <br />
|BFN||Bye For Now<br />
|- <br />
|BJ||Blow Job ([[fellatio]])<br />
|- <br />
|BPD||Borderline Personality Disorder<br />
|- <br />
|BRB||Be Right Back - used in instant messaging<br />
|- <br />
|BS||Big Smile ''or'' Bull Shit - worthwhile knowing which!<br />
|- <br />
|BSTS||Better Safe than sorry<br />
|- <br />
|BT||Ball Torture (see also CBT)<br />
|- <br />
|BTDT||Been There, Done That<br />
|- <br />
|BTW||By The Way<br />
|- <br />
|CB(C&B)||[[Chastity Belt]] / Cock and Ball<br />
|- <br />
|[[CBT]]||Cock and Ball Torture/Training<br />
|- <br />
|CCK||[[Coffee, Cake and Kink]]<br />
|- <br />
|CD||Cross Dresser<br />
|- <br />
|CFIDS||Chronic Fatigue Immune Deficiency Syndrome<br />
|- <br />
|CFS||Chronic Fatigue Syndrome<br />
|- <br />
|CIS||Complete and Irrevocable [[Submission]] (see also TPE)<br />
|- <br />
|CNC||[[Consensual-nonconsent|Consensual Non Consent]]<br />
|- <br />
|CP||[[Corporal punishment|Corporal Punishment]]<br />
|- <br />
|CT||Cock Torture (see also CBT)<br />
|- <br />
|CTS||Carpal Tunnel Syndrome<br />
|- <br />
|D&S or D/s||[[Domination and submission]] or Dominance and Submission<br />
|- <br />
|DS||Domestic Service (also sometimes same as D/s)<br />
|- <br />
|DD||[[Daddy Dom]]<br />
|- <br />
|D/D or D&D||Drug & Disease - normally on a personal as "D&D free"<br />
|- <br />
|D/O/M||[[Dom]]/[[Owner]]/[[Master]]<br />
|- <br />
|E&OE||Errors and Omissions Excluded (in other words, if there is a mistake don't blame me)<br />
|- <br />
|EC||[[Chastity Belts|Enforced Chastity]]<br />
|- <br />
|EOL||End Of Lecture or End Of Line<br />
|- <br />
|EOLT||End Of Leisure Time - time to get back to work<br />
|- <br />
|EOM||End Of Message<br />
|- <br />
|EMS||See TENS<br />
|- <br />
|EPE||Erotic [[Power exchange]]<br />
|- <br />
|[[FAQ]]||Frequently Asked Question(s) and answers<br />
|- <br />
|FITB||Fill In The Blank<br />
|- <br />
|FF||[[Fisting|Fist Fucking]]<br />
|- <br />
|FLR||[[Female Led Relationship]]<br />
|- <br />
|FTM||Female To Male ([[Transgender|transgendered]])<br />
|- <br />
|FTMP||For The Most Part<br />
|- <br />
|FTR||For The Record<br />
|- <br />
|FUBAR||Fucked Up Beyond All Recognition<br />
|- <br />
|FWIW||For What It's Worth...<br />
|- <br />
|FYI||For Your Information<br />
|- <br />
|G/G||Girl/Girl<br />
|- <br />
|GF||Girl Friend<br />
|- <br />
|GMTA||Great Minds Think Alike<br />
|- <br />
|GNP||Gender Neutral Pronouns, Gross National Product (context!!)<br />
|- <br />
|GS||[[Watersports|Golden Shower]]<br />
|- <br />
|GSOH||Good Sense Of Humour<br />
|- <br />
|HAND||Have A Nice Day<br />
|- <br />
|[[HIV]]||Human Immunodeficiency Virus<br />
|- <br />
|HNG||Horny Net Geek - clueless person just out for kicks<br />
|- <br />
|HOH||[[Head of Household|Head Of Household]] - the [[dominant]] person at home<br />
|- <br />
|HTH||Hope This/That Helps<br />
|- <br />
|HWP||Height and Weight Proprotional (i.e.: "normal" build)<br />
|- <br />
|IAC||In Any Case<br />
|- <br />
|IAE||In Any Event<br />
|- <br />
|IANAL||I Am Not A Lawyer<br />
|- <br />
|IDK||I Don't Know (also FIIK)<br />
|- <br />
|IM||Instant Message (like [http://www.icq.com/ ICQ], [http://www.aol.co.uk/aim/ AOL], [http://imagine-msn.com/messenger/ MSN] or [http://messenger.yahoo.com/ Yahoo])<br />
|- <br />
|IMHO||In My Humble Opinion<br />
|- <br />
|IMNSHO||In My Not So Humble Opinion<br />
|- <br />
|IMO||In My Opinion<br />
|- <br />
|IOU||I owe you<br />
|- <br />
|IOW||In Other Words<br />
|- <br />
|IRC||Internet Relay Chat - see IM<br />
|- <br />
|IRT||In Reply To, In Regards To<br />
|- <br />
|ISO||In Search Of<br />
|- <br />
|ISP||Internet Service Provider<br />
|- <br />
|ISTM||It Seems To Me<br />
|- <br />
|ISTR||I Seem To Recall<br />
|- <br />
|ISO||In Search Of (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
|- <br />
|ITMT||In The MeanTime<br />
|- <br />
|JK||Just Kidding<br />
|- <br />
|KH||Key Holder<br />
|- <br />
|KHYF||Know How You Feel<br />
|- <br />
|L8R||Later<br />
|- <br />
|LAM||[[London Alternative Market]]<br />
|- <br />
|LDR||Long Distance Relationship<br />
|- <br />
|LDU||''Leather/Denim/Uniform'' fetish - a characteristically masculine style of appearance<br />
|- <br />
|LFF||[[London Fetish Fair]]<br />
|- <br />
|[[LGBTQ]]||[[Lesbian]], [[Gay]], [[Bisexual]], [[Transgender]] and Questioning<br />
|- <br />
|LMAO||Laughing My Ass Off - also see ROFL<br />
|- <br />
|LOL||Laughing Out Loud - also see LOL<br />
|- <br />
|LTNS||Long Time No See!<br />
|- <br />
|LTR||Long Term Relationship<br />
|- <br />
|M||Could be [[Master (BDSM)|Master]], especially if upper-case or [[masochist]], often lower-case.<br />
|- <br />
|MPD||Multiple Personality Disorder<br />
|- <br />
|M/s||[[Master/slave]]<br />
|- <br />
|MYOB||Mind Your Own Business<br />
|- <br />
|NC||Non-Consensual<br />
|- <br />
|NG||News Group / No Good<br />
|- <br />
|NIMBY||Not In My Back Yard<br />
|- <br />
|NL||New Leather<br />
|- <br />
|NLA||National Leather Association (USA)<br />
|- <br />
|NP||No Problem<br />
|- <br />
|NS||Non-Smoker (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
|- <br />
|OHAC||Own House And Car (in personal adverts/profiles)<br />
|- <br />
|OOC||Out of Character / Curiosity<br />
|- <br />
|OT||Off Topic / Occupational Therapist<br />
|- <br />
|[[OTK]]||Over The Knee - a lovely position to be [[Spanking|spanked]]<br />
|- <br />
|OTOH||On The Other Hand<br />
|- <br />
|OTT||Over The Top (exaggerated)<br />
|- <br />
|OTW||One True Way (usually sarcasm)<br />
|- <br />
|P&M||Posted & Mailed<br />
|- <br />
|PA||[[Prince Albert]] (type of piercing) ''also'' Photo Appreciated (in personal advert/profile)<br />
|- <br />
|PDA||Public Displays of Affection<br />
|- <br />
|PE||[[Power exchange|Power Exchange]] (see APE and TPE)<br />
|- <br />
|PITA||Pain In The Ass<br />
|- <br />
|PMFJI||Pardon Me (For) Jumping In<br />
|- <br />
|POA||Power Of Attorney<br />
|- <br />
|POV||Point Of View<br />
|- <br />
|PS||PostScript<br />
|- <br />
|PSA||Public Service Announcement<br />
|- <br />
|PTSS/PTSD||Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome / Disorder<br />
|- <br />
|QED||Quod Est Demonstrandum (that which was to be demonstrated) ("so there!")<br />
|- <br />
|R/L or RL||Real Life<br />
|- <br />
|[[RACK]]||Risk-Aware Consensual Kink<br />
|- <br />
|ROFL||Rolling On the Floor Laughing (there are variations)<br />
|- <br />
|ROTFL||see ROFL<br />
|- <br />
|RT||Real-Time - see also RL<br />
|- <br />
|RTFM||Read the F*g Manual!<br />
|- <br />
|RW||Real World<br />
|- <br />
|SAM||Smart Assed [[Masochist]]<br />
|- <br />
|SCA||Society for Createive Anachronism<br />
|- <br />
|SCB||[[GoogleGroups:soc.culture.bondage|soc.culture.bondage]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|SD||Sensory Deprivation<br />
|- <br />
|SM or S&M||[[Sadomasochism|Sado-Masochism]] or Sadism & Masochism<br />
|- <br />
|SNAFU||Situation Normal - All Fucked Up<br />
|- <br />
|SNAG||Sensitive New Age Guy<br />
|- <br />
|SO||Significant Other<br />
|- <br />
|SOW||Speaking Of Which<br />
|- <br />
|[[SSC]]||[[Safe, sane, and consensual|Safe, Sane, Consensual]]<br />
|- <br />
|SSS||[[GoogleGroups:Soc.Sexuality.Spanking|Soc.Sexuality.Spanking]] - [[newsgroup]]<br />
|- <br />
|STD/STI||Sexually Transmitted Disease / .. Infection<br />
|- <br />
|SWAMP||[[South West Alternative Market & Party]]<br />
|- <br />
|TAF||That's All Folks<br />
|- <br />
|TAFN||That's All For Now<br />
|- <br />
|TANJ||There Ain't No Justice<br />
|- <br />
|TANSTAAFL||There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch<br />
|- <br />
|TBH||To Be Honest<br />
|- <br />
|TD||[[Top's Disease]] - thinking they are god<br />
|- <br />
|[[TENS]]||Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulator<br />
|- <br />
|TES||The Eulenspiegel Society ([http://www.tes.org/ website])<br />
|- <br />
|TFTB||[[Topping From The Bottom]]<br />
|- <br />
|TG||[[Transgender|Transgender ''or'' TransGendered]]<br />
|- <br />
|TIA||Thanks In Advance<br />
|- <br />
|TIC||Tongue in Cheek<br />
|- <br />
|TIH||[[Taken In Hand]]<br />
|- <br />
|TLA||Three Letter Acronym<br />
|- <br />
|TMI||Too Much Information<br />
|- <br />
|TOS||Terms Of Service<br />
|- <br />
|[[TPE]]||Total [[Power exchange|Power Exchange]]<br />
|- <br />
|TPTB||The Powers That Be<br />
|- <br />
|TS||[[TransSexual]]<br />
|- <br />
|TT||Tit Torture/[[Breast torture]]<br />
|- <br />
|TTBOMK||To The Best Of My Knowledge<br />
|- <br />
|TTFN||Ta Ta For Now<br />
|- <br />
|TTTO||To The Tune Of<br />
|- <br />
|TV||[[Transvestite|TransVestite]] / TeleVision<br />
|- <br />
|TY / TYVM||Thank You / Thank You Very Much<br />
|- <br />
|U&A(&LI)||Used and Abuse (and Loving It)<br />
|- <br />
|VBG||Very Big Grin<br />
|- <br />
|VWG||Very Wide Grin or Very Wicked Grin<br />
|- <br />
|Wiitwd(h)||What it is that we do (here)<br />
|- <br />
|WIIWD||See Wiitwd<br />
|- <br />
|WRT||With Respect To<br />
|- <br />
|WS||[[Watersports|Water Sports]] (see also GS)<br />
|- <br />
|WTF?||What the Fuck??<br />
|- <br />
|WYSIWYG||What You See Is What You Get<br />
|- <br />
|YKINMK||Your [[Kink]] Is Not My [[Kink]]<br />
|- <br />
|[[YKIOK,IJNMK]]||Your [[Kink]] is OK, It's Just Not My [[Kink]]<br />
|- <br />
|YMBJ||You Must Be Joking<br />
|- <br />
|YMMV||Your Mileage May Vary (i.e. I am happy for you to think otherwise)<br />
|}<br />
<br />
<br />
==Other Resources==<br />
*[http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/dictindx.htm The Deviant's Dictionary]<br />
*[http://www.gaarde.org/acronyms/ Internet Acronyms Dictionary]<br />
<br />
[[Category:AltSex]]<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
[[Category:Fetish]]<br />
[[Category:Health]]<br />
[[Category:Other Topics]]<br />
[[Category:Sexual Techniques]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Female-led_relationshipFemale-led relationship2008-04-13T12:34:37Z<p>BottomOut: </p>
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<div>A '''Female Led Relationship''' or '''FLR''' refers to a couple (usually married) or family where the female is the head of the household and in control. Very often this includes [[BDSM]] and [[Female Domination]] practices, however, it can be as mild as [[Orgasm Control]] (see the ''Around Her Finger'' book and link below).<br />
<br />
In a '''FLR''' the wife or female makes the decisions and controls the finances. The husband or male does most or all of the housework.<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
<br />
*Ken Addison ''Around Her Finger'' Lulu.com, 2004.<br />
*Emily and Ken Addison ''The New Bride's Guide to Training Her Husband'' Lulu.com, 2005.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[Female Domination]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://aroundherfinger.com/ Around Her Finger]<br />
* [http://femaleconsensus.blogspot.com/ The Female Consensus - Chastity for the Perfect Marriage]<br />
* [http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html Male Chastity: The Woman’s Pictorial Guide to a Blissful Relationship]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
<br />
[[category:Women]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Female-led_relationshipFemale-led relationship2008-04-13T12:32:01Z<p>BottomOut: /* changed external links a bit */</p>
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<div>A '''Female Led Relationship''' or '''FLR''' refers to a couple (usually married) or family where the female is the head of the household and in control. Very often this includes [[BDSM]] [[Female Domination]] practices, however, it can be as mild as [[Orgasm Control]] (see the ''Around Her Finger'' book and link below).<br />
<br />
In a '''FLR''' the wife or female makes the decisions and controls the finances. The husband or male does most or all of the housework.<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
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*Ken Addison ''Around Her Finger'' Lulu.com, 2004.<br />
*Emily and Ken Addison ''The New Bride's Guide to Training Her Husband'' Lulu.com, 2005.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[Female Domination]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://aroundherfinger.com/ Around Her Finger]<br />
* [http://femaleconsensus.blogspot.com/ The Female Consensus - Chastity for the Perfect Marriage]<br />
* [http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html Male Chastity: The Woman’s Pictorial Guide to a Blissful Relationship]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
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<div>A '''Female Led Relationship''' or '''FLR''' refers to a couple (usually married) or family where the female is the head of the household and in control. Very often this includes [[BDSM]] [[Female Domination]] practices, however, it can be as mild as [[Orgasm Control]] (see the ''Around Her Finger'' book and link below).<br />
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In a '''FLR''' the wife or female makes the decisions and controls the finances. The husband or male does most or all of the housework.<br />
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== References and further reading ==<br />
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*Ken Addison ''Around Her Finger'' Lulu.com, 2004.<br />
*Emily and Ken Addison ''The New Bride's Guide to Training Her Husband'' Lulu.com, 2005.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[Female Domination]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://aroundherfinger.com/ Around Her Finger]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
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==Welcome back!==<br />
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Good to see you online again. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 16:34, 10 January 2007 (UTC)<br />
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:I need to be told how to do your little illustration on your user page. Yes, I am a leather queen, basically a 'pushy bottom', into all sorts of kink, with [[Tit torture]] being my middle name. Did some more work on the [[Nipple torture]] article, and wrote if from my point of view; this can be Bondage and Discipline/Sadomasochism, but in the leather scene, its mostly mutual abuse. If Anne Rice can write porn about women enjoying it, well, enough said. I gave myself the name MineShaft after the famous leather sex club in New York (a place a I hung out at nearly every weekend). --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 06:53, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== [[Tit torture]] ==<br />
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I think we are agreed my article does describe a deliciously Wipi topic, and you seem to be re-writing '''[[breast bondage]]''' to incorporate your own experiences and pleasure. <br />
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Tit torture among gays is just tits/areolae (the other two cocks). With lesbian and hetero relationships, it's obviously something different, with the fatty and milk-producing tissues of the female breast being involved. But I'm pretty sure there are some hard-core hetero women out there who want their nipples abused as only I can abuse them. <br />
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Everything in my article is from personal knowledge. Been there, done that, loved doing it, still do it. PS, forgot sig --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 08:19, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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:Saw your response. Friendly, yet, as you say, clueless, insofar as how leathermen behave, as you said. I'm authentic [[S&M]], but where mutual pain is sought, as a form of mutual pleasure. It's not really bondage/submission, but it is very high leather. You have never lived a week with totally trashed tits, where the slightest movement against your shirt did not cause '''sensation''' of a sexual sort; perpetual semi-arousal is a life-style choice. PS, forgot to sign, --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 09:08, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== All the pics I uploaded came from free promos of the sites... ==<br />
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In regards to the pictures I uploaded they are from promotional freebies of the sites Necrobabes and the now gone MFX none of it required payment as they were freely avalaible on the internet from the Get-go as promotional material...<br />
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== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
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A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:25, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
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Oh yes, I'm different, thanks for the offer of help, I may need it.. As.. I'm not even entirely sure I'm typing this note in the right place.<br />
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Thank you for the welcome, I appreciate it.<br />
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== Reverse prayer position ==<br />
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Thanks. Wow - he sounds fun.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 16:29, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
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== Igor The Troll ==<br />
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Thank you for your feedback, but actually I am at the right place!<br />
We need to get to know who is what and what is who before we pass judgment. [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 23:08, 25 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== nonexistent vs non-existent ==<br />
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You recent edit to [[Slave - Personal Experiences]], is it not nonexistent that is the correct syntax? [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 14:12, 3 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Not according to the Concise Oxford Dictionary. We generally use British spelling.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 20:25, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Censorship ==<br />
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I'm quite happy to say that censorship is one form of restriction of people's rights, but:<br><br />
# That is not the definition of censorship<br />
# There are many other infringements of human rights, such as imprisonment without trial and denial of freedom to vote.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 23:29, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
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Thank you for welcoming me to the site. A wiki for BDSM-- great idea. I am from the US however, and I'm a little sad that this site seems more tuned to London/UK versus a worldwide audience...<br />
[[User:Derek|Derek]] 15:41, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Thanks for the clarifcation on the world-wide/UK policy(or lack thereof). I do know of some US-based clubs, particularly the one I belong to, but I would have to check with the board before linking to them. Thanks. [[User:Derek|Derek]] 19:15, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Stub article ==<br />
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I've done my best.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 12:36, 20 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the welcome! ==<br />
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How does one make the... well I'm not sure what to call it, the bars that have "M This user is a master or mistress", "S This user is straight", and so on that you have on your User Page?<br />
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Thanks!<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 15:38, 4 March 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the info on User Boxes ==<br />
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I think I've got it. I notice under the Misc. ones there are "I am a Wipipedian" boxes, how does one become a Wipipedian? I have already added some stuff to a couple of pages, does that qualify me as a Wipipedian?<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 13:32, 6 March 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Redirection ==<br />
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I tried to change one of the redirections (Domina redirects to Dominatrix instead of Female Domination) but it didn't seem to take. Is there something else I need to do to update the redirection?<br />
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I also noticed a couple of pages that are listed twice in the directory (like Orgasm Control and Orgasm control) where one redirects to the other, which seems kind of strange. <br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], [[domme]] or [[domina]]. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
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Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
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The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
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Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
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Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the [[dominatrix]], over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
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Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
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More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
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In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
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== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
* [[Pornocracy]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://goddessclub.com/ Goddess Club]<br />
* [http://www.owk.cz/ The Other World Kingdom]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.male-slavery.com/ Owning and Training a Male Slave]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/female-domination-history.html Female Domination History]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], [[domme]] or [[domina]]. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the [[dominatrix]], over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
* [[Pornocracy]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.male-slavery.com/ Owning and Training a Male Slave]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/female-domination-history.html Female Domination History]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
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<div>'''Ballbusting''' is a form of [[CBT]] in which a man desires to be kicked in the [[testicles]], or a woman desires to kick someone in the testicles. As these structures are easily damaged, care must be taken if they are not to be lost, or to lose function. <br />
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* [[CBT]]<br />
* [[Genitorture]]<br />
* [[Genitorture - safety]]<br />
* [[Male Genitorture]]<br />
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*[http://web.archive.org/web/20020802221915/www.callnetuk.com/home/busted/ Scrambled Eggs (Note: this is an archive copy, the original site is defunct)]<br />
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<div>'''Riding The Horse''' refers to a method of [[punishment]] for a [[malesub]]. The "Horse" is similar to a [[sawhorse]] but with a pointed (but not sharp) beam. The male is made to stand with his [[genitals]] resting on the beam which is too high for his feet to be flat on the ground. Time becomes the enemy because eventually his legs tire and he must shift. This can provide an incentive to develop endurance in the calf and leg muscles in a graceful way since a loss of strength or of balance results in [[pain]].<br />
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==See also==<br />
* [[Predicament bondage]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
*[http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=823 getDare Slave Punishment: Riding The Horse]<br />
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<div>'''Riding The Horse''' refers to a method of [[punishment]] for a [[malesub]]. The "Horse" is similar to a [[sawhorse]] but with a pointed (but not sharp) beam. The male is made to stand with his [[genitals]] resting on the beam which is too high for his feet to be flat on the ground. Time becomes the enemy because eventually his legs tire and he must shift. This can provide an incentive to develop endurance in the calf and leg muscles in a graceful way since a loss of strength or of balance results in [[pain]].<br />
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==See also==<br />
* [[Predicament bondage]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
*[http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=823 getDare Slave Punishment: Riding The Horse]<br />
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<div>'''Paddling''' is the act of [[spanking]] a [[submissive]] with a [[paddle]].<br />
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* [[Cane]]<br />
* [[Corporal punishment]]<br />
* [[Discipline]]<br />
* [[Flagellation]]<br />
* [[Flogging]]<br />
* [[Spanking]]<br />
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<div>'''Paddling''' is the act of [[spanking]] a [[submissive]] with a [[paddle]].<br />
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==See Also==<br />
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* [[Cane]]<br />
* [[Corporal punishment]]<br />
* [[Discipline]]<br />
* [[Edgeplay]]<br />
* [[Flagellation]]<br />
* [[Flogging]]<br />
* [[Spanking]]<br />
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<div>'''Domestic Discipline''', or simply '''DD''', is the enforcement of order, usually by [[punishment]] for infringement of [[rules]] applied in a domestic context, normally between members of a household. In the generally [[Informed consent|voluntary context]] of adult relationships, it is specifically applied to the practice of inter-spousal [[discipline]]. Commonly in a [[heterosexual]] relationship, the disciplined is the woman and the disciplinary is the man.<br />
Many [[power exchange]] style relationships have elements of DD.<br />
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In common with many power-exchange relationships, Domestic Discipline is based on the consensually agreed framework that one partner will adopt the role of overall 'leader' in a loving, committed, monogamous relationship, and the other will submit to that leadership. The purpose of this is to lessen conflict and promote harmony, respect and closer 'connection' between partners with it understood that the leader in the relationship has a duty to only make rules that are good for both the partners. Power exchange within a DD relationship is usually confined to certain mutually agreed areas in which both partners want to effect change and improvement and does not necessarily extend to the relationship as a whole. Within those agreed areas, the leader (sometimes referred to as the '[[Head of Household]]/Relationship' (HOH/R) takes precedence and has 'final say', although there may be extensive discussion and negotiation between partners before that point is reached. Where the leader considers that his/her partner has broken his rules, he may take the decision, for the good of both the relationship and her, to punish using (most often) [[spanking]] and/or other 'traditional' methods of discipline.<br />
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Mutual respect, consideration and communication are essential to a healthy DD relationship, but, while the framework of DD must be consensually agreed, individual punishments may occasionally be given [[Consensual-nonconsent|without the specific consent]] of the 'disciplinee'.<br />
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Ideally, DD is the loving, consistent use of discipline as a positive way to enhance communication, deepen intimacy and reinforce relationship commitment. The discipline would normally include physical punishment, especially [[spanking]], but centres around rules of behaviour laid down by [[Dominant|one party]] and nominally agreed to by [[Submissive|the other]]. Couples who base their relationship on their religion may also include prayer and other forms of godly worship as a means of correction.<br />
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Practitioners argue that domestic discipline is distinct from both [[wikipedia:Domestic_violence|domestic abuse]] and activities such as [[erotic spanking]] and [[BDSM]]-style [[Domination and submission|domination and submission]]. [[Switch]]ing is unusual in a DD relationship.<br />
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As a relationship style, it is often seen as a stylised form of 'traditional' relationship intended to help the woman overcome negative behaviours that harm herself, her relationship or others. In creating loving limits to her behaviour and firm consequences for harmful activities, it aims to improve the relationship over time and demonstrates a loving connection to and physical correction from a caring partner.<br />
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==Use outside BDSM==<br />
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The term ''domestic discipline'' is used in other contexts outside of BDSM in ways that are analogous. For example, in education, it is discipline applied by the educator, mainly of a minor and at home; in youth movements, it is the disciplining of minors.<br />
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==See Also==<br />
*[[Power exchange]]<br />
*[[Head of Household]]<br />
*[[Taken In Hand]]<br />
*[[Domination and submission|Dominance & submission]]<br />
<br />
==External Links==<br />
*[http://lovingdd.blogspot.com/ Loving Domestic Discipline]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/bible/app/dd.shtml Domestic Discipline at Odds With the Word of God]<br />
* [http://marriage.about.com/cs/domesticviolence/a/domesticdisc.htm Domestic Discipline: Loving Correction or Domestic Violence?]<br />
<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
* [[Pornocracy]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.male-slavery.com/ Owning and Training a Male Slave]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/female-domination-history.html Female Domination History]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/female-domination-history.html Female Domination History]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/ Female Domination Stories and Education Resources]<br />
* [http://femdomale.com/female-domination-history.html Female Domination History]<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>'''Riding The Horse''', refers to a method of punishment for a [[malesub]]. The "Horse" is similar to a Sawhorse but with a pointed (but not sharp) beam. The male is made to stand with his genitals resting on the beam which is a too high for his feet to be flat on the ground. Time becomes the enemy because eventually his legs tire and he must shift.<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=823 getDare Slave Punishment: Riding The Horse]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Female_dominationFemale domination2008-03-09T15:10:39Z<p>BottomOut: /* External links - removed Dominants of Distinction (groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction/) link, group doesn't appear to exist anymore. */</p>
<hr />
<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<hr />
<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://msrika.com/ Uniquely Rika]<br />
* [http://paige-harrison.com/HomePage.asp Paige Harrison - The Art of Female Domination]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<hr />
<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.mschristine.com/ Ms. Christine and David]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>Malesub, or male submission, refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[submissive]] partner is male. There tend to be many more male submissives than female [[dominant]]s.<br />
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==See Also==<br />
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* [[Female domination]]<br />
* [[Male domination]]<br />
* [[Slave]]<br />
* [[Slave-boy]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
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[http://www.cbwork.net/ Cock and Ball work]<br />
<br />
[[Category:Men]]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.spankedhusbandssatisfiedwives.com/ Spanked Husbands Satisfied Wives]<br />
* [http://www.whapmag.com/ Whap! Magazine: Women Who Administer Punishment]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male submission]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]]. Female domination is most often encountered in relation to a [[heterosexual]] or [[bisexual]] male [[submissive]] but also applies to cases of [[female submission]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
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==Welcome back!==<br />
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Good to see you online again. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 16:34, 10 January 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:I need to be told how to do your little illustration on your user page. Yes, I am a leather queen, basically a 'pushy bottom', into all sorts of kink, with [[Tit torture]] being my middle name. Did some more work on the [[Nipple torture]] article, and wrote if from my point of view; this can be Bondage and Discipline/Sadomasochism, but in the leather scene, its mostly mutual abuse. If Anne Rice can write porn about women enjoying it, well, enough said. I gave myself the name MineShaft after the famous leather sex club in New York (a place a I hung out at nearly every weekend). --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 06:53, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== [[Tit torture]] ==<br />
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I think we are agreed my article does describe a deliciously Wipi topic, and you seem to be re-writing '''[[breast bondage]]''' to incorporate your own experiences and pleasure. <br />
<br />
Tit torture among gays is just tits/areolae (the other two cocks). With lesbian and hetero relationships, it's obviously something different, with the fatty and milk-producing tissues of the female breast being involved. But I'm pretty sure there are some hard-core hetero women out there who want their nipples abused as only I can abuse them. <br />
<br />
Everything in my article is from personal knowledge. Been there, done that, loved doing it, still do it. PS, forgot sig --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 08:19, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:Saw your response. Friendly, yet, as you say, clueless, insofar as how leathermen behave, as you said. I'm authentic [[S&M]], but where mutual pain is sought, as a form of mutual pleasure. It's not really bondage/submission, but it is very high leather. You have never lived a week with totally trashed tits, where the slightest movement against your shirt did not cause '''sensation''' of a sexual sort; perpetual semi-arousal is a life-style choice. PS, forgot to sign, --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 09:08, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== All the pics I uploaded came from free promos of the sites... ==<br />
<br />
In regards to the pictures I uploaded they are from promotional freebies of the sites Necrobabes and the now gone MFX none of it required payment as they were freely avalaible on the internet from the Get-go as promotional material...<br />
<br />
== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
<br />
A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:25, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Oh yes, I'm different, thanks for the offer of help, I may need it.. As.. I'm not even entirely sure I'm typing this note in the right place.<br />
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Thank you for the welcome, I appreciate it.<br />
<br />
---Feb, 28. 07.<br />
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== Reverse prayer position ==<br />
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Thanks. Wow - he sounds fun.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 16:29, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
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== Igor The Troll ==<br />
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Thank you for your feedback, but actually I am at the right place!<br />
We need to get to know who is what and what is who before we pass judgment. [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 23:08, 25 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
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== nonexistent vs non-existent ==<br />
<br />
You recent edit to [[Slave - Personal Experiences]], is it not nonexistent that is the correct syntax? [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 14:12, 3 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Not according to the Concise Oxford Dictionary. We generally use British spelling.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 20:25, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Censorship ==<br />
<br />
I'm quite happy to say that censorship is one form of restriction of people's rights, but:<br><br />
# That is not the definition of censorship<br />
# There are many other infringements of human rights, such as imprisonment without trial and denial of freedom to vote.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 23:29, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. A wiki for BDSM-- great idea. I am from the US however, and I'm a little sad that this site seems more tuned to London/UK versus a worldwide audience...<br />
[[User:Derek|Derek]] 15:41, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Thanks for the clarifcation on the world-wide/UK policy(or lack thereof). I do know of some US-based clubs, particularly the one I belong to, but I would have to check with the board before linking to them. Thanks. [[User:Derek|Derek]] 19:15, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Stub article ==<br />
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I've done my best.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 12:36, 20 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the welcome! ==<br />
<br />
How does one make the... well I'm not sure what to call it, the bars that have "M This user is a master or mistress", "S This user is straight", and so on that you have on your User Page?<br />
<br />
Thanks!<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 15:38, 4 March 2008 (UTC)<br />
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== Thanks for the info on User Boxes ==<br />
<br />
I think I've got it. I notice under the Misc. ones there are "I am a Wipipedian" boxes, how does one become a Wipipedian? I have already added some stuff to a couple of pages, does that qualify me as a Wipipedian?<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 13:32, 6 March 2008 (UTC)</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=User_talk:InteresdomUser talk:Interesdom2008-03-06T13:27:13Z<p>BottomOut: Thanks for the info on User Boxes</p>
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==Welcome back!==<br />
<br />
Good to see you online again. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 16:34, 10 January 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:I need to be told how to do your little illustration on your user page. Yes, I am a leather queen, basically a 'pushy bottom', into all sorts of kink, with [[Tit torture]] being my middle name. Did some more work on the [[Nipple torture]] article, and wrote if from my point of view; this can be Bondage and Discipline/Sadomasochism, but in the leather scene, its mostly mutual abuse. If Anne Rice can write porn about women enjoying it, well, enough said. I gave myself the name MineShaft after the famous leather sex club in New York (a place a I hung out at nearly every weekend). --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 06:53, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== [[Tit torture]] ==<br />
<br />
I think we are agreed my article does describe a deliciously Wipi topic, and you seem to be re-writing '''[[breast bondage]]''' to incorporate your own experiences and pleasure. <br />
<br />
Tit torture among gays is just tits/areolae (the other two cocks). With lesbian and hetero relationships, it's obviously something different, with the fatty and milk-producing tissues of the female breast being involved. But I'm pretty sure there are some hard-core hetero women out there who want their nipples abused as only I can abuse them. <br />
<br />
Everything in my article is from personal knowledge. Been there, done that, loved doing it, still do it. PS, forgot sig --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 08:19, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:Saw your response. Friendly, yet, as you say, clueless, insofar as how leathermen behave, as you said. I'm authentic [[S&M]], but where mutual pain is sought, as a form of mutual pleasure. It's not really bondage/submission, but it is very high leather. You have never lived a week with totally trashed tits, where the slightest movement against your shirt did not cause '''sensation''' of a sexual sort; perpetual semi-arousal is a life-style choice. PS, forgot to sign, --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 09:08, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== All the pics I uploaded came from free promos of the sites... ==<br />
<br />
In regards to the pictures I uploaded they are from promotional freebies of the sites Necrobabes and the now gone MFX none of it required payment as they were freely avalaible on the internet from the Get-go as promotional material...<br />
<br />
== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
<br />
A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:25, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Oh yes, I'm different, thanks for the offer of help, I may need it.. As.. I'm not even entirely sure I'm typing this note in the right place.<br />
<br />
Thank you for the welcome, I appreciate it.<br />
<br />
---Feb, 28. 07.<br />
<br />
== Reverse prayer position ==<br />
<br />
Thanks. Wow - he sounds fun.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 16:29, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
<br />
== Igor The Troll ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for your feedback, but actually I am at the right place!<br />
We need to get to know who is what and what is who before we pass judgment. [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 23:08, 25 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== nonexistent vs non-existent ==<br />
<br />
You recent edit to [[Slave - Personal Experiences]], is it not nonexistent that is the correct syntax? [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 14:12, 3 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Not according to the Concise Oxford Dictionary. We generally use British spelling.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 20:25, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Censorship ==<br />
<br />
I'm quite happy to say that censorship is one form of restriction of people's rights, but:<br><br />
# That is not the definition of censorship<br />
# There are many other infringements of human rights, such as imprisonment without trial and denial of freedom to vote.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 23:29, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. A wiki for BDSM-- great idea. I am from the US however, and I'm a little sad that this site seems more tuned to London/UK versus a worldwide audience...<br />
[[User:Derek|Derek]] 15:41, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Thanks for the clarifcation on the world-wide/UK policy(or lack thereof). I do know of some US-based clubs, particularly the one I belong to, but I would have to check with the board before linking to them. Thanks. [[User:Derek|Derek]] 19:15, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Stub article ==<br />
<br />
I've done my best.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 12:36, 20 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome! ==<br />
<br />
How does one make the... well I'm not sure what to call it, the bars that have "M This user is a master or mistress", "S This user is straight", and so on that you have on your User Page?<br />
<br />
Thanks!<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 15:38, 4 March 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the info on User Boxes ==<br />
<br />
I think I've got it. I notice under the Misc. ones there are "I am a Wipipedian" boxes, how does one become a Wipipedian? I have already added some stuff to a couple of pages, does that qualify me as a Wipipedian?</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=User:BottomOutUser:BottomOut2008-03-06T13:21:05Z<p>BottomOut: </p>
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<div>{{user straight}}<br />
{{user slave}}<br />
{{user masochist}}</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=User_talk:InteresdomUser talk:Interesdom2008-03-04T15:38:34Z<p>BottomOut: /* Thanks for the welcome! */</p>
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<div>{{Template:Usercomment}}<br />
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<br />
==Welcome back!==<br />
<br />
Good to see you online again. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 16:34, 10 January 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:I need to be told how to do your little illustration on your user page. Yes, I am a leather queen, basically a 'pushy bottom', into all sorts of kink, with [[Tit torture]] being my middle name. Did some more work on the [[Nipple torture]] article, and wrote if from my point of view; this can be Bondage and Discipline/Sadomasochism, but in the leather scene, its mostly mutual abuse. If Anne Rice can write porn about women enjoying it, well, enough said. I gave myself the name MineShaft after the famous leather sex club in New York (a place a I hung out at nearly every weekend). --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 06:53, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== [[Tit torture]] ==<br />
<br />
I think we are agreed my article does describe a deliciously Wipi topic, and you seem to be re-writing '''[[breast bondage]]''' to incorporate your own experiences and pleasure. <br />
<br />
Tit torture among gays is just tits/areolae (the other two cocks). With lesbian and hetero relationships, it's obviously something different, with the fatty and milk-producing tissues of the female breast being involved. But I'm pretty sure there are some hard-core hetero women out there who want their nipples abused as only I can abuse them. <br />
<br />
Everything in my article is from personal knowledge. Been there, done that, loved doing it, still do it. PS, forgot sig --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 08:19, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:Saw your response. Friendly, yet, as you say, clueless, insofar as how leathermen behave, as you said. I'm authentic [[S&M]], but where mutual pain is sought, as a form of mutual pleasure. It's not really bondage/submission, but it is very high leather. You have never lived a week with totally trashed tits, where the slightest movement against your shirt did not cause '''sensation''' of a sexual sort; perpetual semi-arousal is a life-style choice. PS, forgot to sign, --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 09:08, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== All the pics I uploaded came from free promos of the sites... ==<br />
<br />
In regards to the pictures I uploaded they are from promotional freebies of the sites Necrobabes and the now gone MFX none of it required payment as they were freely avalaible on the internet from the Get-go as promotional material...<br />
<br />
== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
<br />
A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:25, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Oh yes, I'm different, thanks for the offer of help, I may need it.. As.. I'm not even entirely sure I'm typing this note in the right place.<br />
<br />
Thank you for the welcome, I appreciate it.<br />
<br />
---Feb, 28. 07.<br />
<br />
== Reverse prayer position ==<br />
<br />
Thanks. Wow - he sounds fun.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 16:29, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
<br />
== Igor The Troll ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for your feedback, but actually I am at the right place!<br />
We need to get to know who is what and what is who before we pass judgment. [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 23:08, 25 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== nonexistent vs non-existent ==<br />
<br />
You recent edit to [[Slave - Personal Experiences]], is it not nonexistent that is the correct syntax? [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 14:12, 3 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Not according to the Concise Oxford Dictionary. We generally use British spelling.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 20:25, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Censorship ==<br />
<br />
I'm quite happy to say that censorship is one form of restriction of people's rights, but:<br><br />
# That is not the definition of censorship<br />
# There are many other infringements of human rights, such as imprisonment without trial and denial of freedom to vote.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 23:29, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. A wiki for BDSM-- great idea. I am from the US however, and I'm a little sad that this site seems more tuned to London/UK versus a worldwide audience...<br />
[[User:Derek|Derek]] 15:41, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Thanks for the clarifcation on the world-wide/UK policy(or lack thereof). I do know of some US-based clubs, particularly the one I belong to, but I would have to check with the board before linking to them. Thanks. [[User:Derek|Derek]] 19:15, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Stub article ==<br />
<br />
I've done my best.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 12:36, 20 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome! ==<br />
<br />
How does one make the... well I'm not sure what to call it, the bars that have "M This user is a master or mistress", "S This user is straight", and so on that you have on your User Page?<br />
<br />
Thanks!<br />
--[[User:BottomOut|BottomOut]] 15:38, 4 March 2008 (UTC)</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=User_talk:InteresdomUser talk:Interesdom2008-03-04T15:36:45Z<p>BottomOut: Thanks for the welcome!</p>
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<div>{{Template:Usercomment}}<br />
<br />
<br />
==Welcome back!==<br />
<br />
Good to see you online again. [[User:Balzac|Balzac]] 16:34, 10 January 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:I need to be told how to do your little illustration on your user page. Yes, I am a leather queen, basically a 'pushy bottom', into all sorts of kink, with [[Tit torture]] being my middle name. Did some more work on the [[Nipple torture]] article, and wrote if from my point of view; this can be Bondage and Discipline/Sadomasochism, but in the leather scene, its mostly mutual abuse. If Anne Rice can write porn about women enjoying it, well, enough said. I gave myself the name MineShaft after the famous leather sex club in New York (a place a I hung out at nearly every weekend). --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 06:53, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== [[Tit torture]] ==<br />
<br />
I think we are agreed my article does describe a deliciously Wipi topic, and you seem to be re-writing '''[[breast bondage]]''' to incorporate your own experiences and pleasure. <br />
<br />
Tit torture among gays is just tits/areolae (the other two cocks). With lesbian and hetero relationships, it's obviously something different, with the fatty and milk-producing tissues of the female breast being involved. But I'm pretty sure there are some hard-core hetero women out there who want their nipples abused as only I can abuse them. <br />
<br />
Everything in my article is from personal knowledge. Been there, done that, loved doing it, still do it. PS, forgot sig --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 08:19, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
:Saw your response. Friendly, yet, as you say, clueless, insofar as how leathermen behave, as you said. I'm authentic [[S&M]], but where mutual pain is sought, as a form of mutual pleasure. It's not really bondage/submission, but it is very high leather. You have never lived a week with totally trashed tits, where the slightest movement against your shirt did not cause '''sensation''' of a sexual sort; perpetual semi-arousal is a life-style choice. PS, forgot to sign, --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 09:08, 9 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== All the pics I uploaded came from free promos of the sites... ==<br />
<br />
In regards to the pictures I uploaded they are from promotional freebies of the sites Necrobabes and the now gone MFX none of it required payment as they were freely avalaible on the internet from the Get-go as promotional material...<br />
<br />
== Arsehole is whiting. ==<br />
<br />
A troll. --[[User:MineShaft|MineShaft]] 05:25, 27 February 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Oh yes, I'm different, thanks for the offer of help, I may need it.. As.. I'm not even entirely sure I'm typing this note in the right place.<br />
<br />
Thank you for the welcome, I appreciate it.<br />
<br />
---Feb, 28. 07.<br />
<br />
== Reverse prayer position ==<br />
<br />
Thanks. Wow - he sounds fun.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 16:29, 2 April 2007 (BST)<br />
<br />
== Igor The Troll ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for your feedback, but actually I am at the right place!<br />
We need to get to know who is what and what is who before we pass judgment. [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 23:08, 25 December 2007 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== nonexistent vs non-existent ==<br />
<br />
You recent edit to [[Slave - Personal Experiences]], is it not nonexistent that is the correct syntax? [[User:Igorberger|Igorberger]] 14:12, 3 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Not according to the Concise Oxford Dictionary. We generally use British spelling.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 20:25, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Censorship ==<br />
<br />
I'm quite happy to say that censorship is one form of restriction of people's rights, but:<br><br />
# That is not the definition of censorship<br />
# There are many other infringements of human rights, such as imprisonment without trial and denial of freedom to vote.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 23:29, 4 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome ==<br />
<br />
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. A wiki for BDSM-- great idea. I am from the US however, and I'm a little sad that this site seems more tuned to London/UK versus a worldwide audience...<br />
[[User:Derek|Derek]] 15:41, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
: Thanks for the clarifcation on the world-wide/UK policy(or lack thereof). I do know of some US-based clubs, particularly the one I belong to, but I would have to check with the board before linking to them. Thanks. [[User:Derek|Derek]] 19:15, 15 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Stub article ==<br />
<br />
I've done my best.--[[User:Taxwoman|Taxwoman]] 12:36, 20 January 2008 (UTC)<br />
<br />
== Thanks for the welcome! ==<br />
<br />
How does one make the... well I'm not sure what to call it, the bars that have "M This user is a master or mistress", "S This user is straight", and so on that you have on your User Page?<br />
<br />
Thanks!</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Female_dominationFemale domination2008-03-02T18:05:06Z<p>BottomOut: /* References and further reading */</p>
<hr />
<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''The FemDom Experience'' Lulu.com, 2007, ISBN 1430304642.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
<br />
==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elsie Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]<br />
[[category:Women]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Erotic_sexual_denialErotic sexual denial2008-03-02T17:55:49Z<p>BottomOut: /* External links */</p>
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<div>'''Orgasm denial''' is a [[sexual practice]] where a person is kept in the [[wikipedia:plateau phase|plateau phase]] of the [[wikipedia:human sexual response cycle|human sexual response cycle]] for an extended length of time. This is often done as part of a [[BDSM]] game. Depending on the nature of the game, they may be allowed an [[orgasm]] at the end (in which case, the orgasm is generally much stronger than normal); or deliberately denied one either by [[deflation]] (in a male) or by granting only a [[ruined orgasm]], in which case they will generally feel strong feelings of [[sexual frustration]] and [[submission]].<br />
<br />
An alternative form of orgasm denial is '''erotic sexual denial''', the prevention of genital stimulation, either for an extended period or separate from a [[scene]]. Lack of stimulation is ensured by using a [[Chastity Belts|chastity belt]] or other device that physically prevents touch and/or (for males) [[erection]].<br />
<br />
== Long term denial ==<br />
<br />
It is said that males can be kept in denial for extended periods of up to several weeks (periods around 2 - 4 weeks each time are often quoted as being trouble free), although there will be an emotional and psychological impact from the artificial suppression of such a powerful drive. <br />
<br />
The long term consequences for period beyond that are unclear, most sources seem to agree that the body will spontaneously resorb sperm, but that the [[prostate]] fluids should be removed regularly to reduce the later risk of cancer [http://www.chainedmale.net/chastity/chastity_health.htm] (known as "[[wikipedia:prostatic milking|prostatic milking]]"). It is also said that if erection is inhibited for long periods penis skin becomes less elastic which may cause pain or other difficulty in the future when erections are again permitted.<br />
<br />
For females, the impact of long term denial seems to be mostly emotional and psychological, since there is no equivalent of prostate buildup or erection denial involved. Many who have become accustomed to orgasmic relief report being 'turned off' emotionally as well. <br />
<br />
{{Wikipedia|Erotic_sexual_denial}}<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
* [[Chastity Belts]]<br />
* [[Orgasm Control]]<br />
* [[Tease and denial]]<br />
<br />
== External links ==<br />
<br />
* [http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/ Classic website for the subject]<br />
* [http://www.orgasmdenial.com/ Another website dedicated to the subject]<br />
* [http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html Women's guide (amusing and intriguing)]<br />
* [http://theworldofdenial.blogspot.com/ Orgasm Denial Contest]<br />
* [http://femaleconsensus.blogspot.com/ The Female Consensus - Chastity for the Perfect Marriage]<br />
* [http://www.msrika.com/joy.htm Ms. Rika - The Joy of Denial]<br />
<br />
==Other references==<br />
<br />
*[http://www.lulu.com/content/36837 ''Around Her Finger'' by Ken Addison] A non-threatening "semi-vanilla" book exploring the subject. From the publisher:<br />
:''"An entertaining and practical guide to relationships ... While this book does contain some mature themes, it is extremely non-threatening and is intended for a general audience"''<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Erotic_sexual_denialErotic sexual denial2008-03-02T17:52:53Z<p>BottomOut: /* External links */</p>
<hr />
<div>'''Orgasm denial''' is a [[sexual practice]] where a person is kept in the [[wikipedia:plateau phase|plateau phase]] of the [[wikipedia:human sexual response cycle|human sexual response cycle]] for an extended length of time. This is often done as part of a [[BDSM]] game. Depending on the nature of the game, they may be allowed an [[orgasm]] at the end (in which case, the orgasm is generally much stronger than normal); or deliberately denied one either by [[deflation]] (in a male) or by granting only a [[ruined orgasm]], in which case they will generally feel strong feelings of [[sexual frustration]] and [[submission]].<br />
<br />
An alternative form of orgasm denial is '''erotic sexual denial''', the prevention of genital stimulation, either for an extended period or separate from a [[scene]]. Lack of stimulation is ensured by using a [[Chastity Belts|chastity belt]] or other device that physically prevents touch and/or (for males) [[erection]].<br />
<br />
== Long term denial ==<br />
<br />
It is said that males can be kept in denial for extended periods of up to several weeks (periods around 2 - 4 weeks each time are often quoted as being trouble free), although there will be an emotional and psychological impact from the artificial suppression of such a powerful drive. <br />
<br />
The long term consequences for period beyond that are unclear, most sources seem to agree that the body will spontaneously resorb sperm, but that the [[prostate]] fluids should be removed regularly to reduce the later risk of cancer [http://www.chainedmale.net/chastity/chastity_health.htm] (known as "[[wikipedia:prostatic milking|prostatic milking]]"). It is also said that if erection is inhibited for long periods penis skin becomes less elastic which may cause pain or other difficulty in the future when erections are again permitted.<br />
<br />
For females, the impact of long term denial seems to be mostly emotional and psychological, since there is no equivalent of prostate buildup or erection denial involved. Many who have become accustomed to orgasmic relief report being 'turned off' emotionally as well. <br />
<br />
{{Wikipedia|Erotic_sexual_denial}}<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
* [[Chastity Belts]]<br />
* [[Orgasm Control]]<br />
* [[Tease and denial]]<br />
<br />
== External links ==<br />
<br />
* [http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/ Classic website for the subject]<br />
* [http://www.orgasmdenial.com/ Another website dedicated to the subject]<br />
* [http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html Women's guide (amusing and intriguing)]<br />
* [http://theworldofdenial.blogspot.com/ Orgasm Denial Contest]<br />
* [http://femaleconsensus.blogspot.com/ The Female Consensus - Chastity for the Perfect Marriage]<br />
<br />
==Other references==<br />
<br />
*[http://www.lulu.com/content/36837 ''Around Her Finger'' by Ken Addison] A non-threatening "semi-vanilla" book exploring the subject. From the publisher:<br />
:''"An entertaining and practical guide to relationships ... While this book does contain some mature themes, it is extremely non-threatening and is intended for a general audience"''<br />
<br />
[[Category:BDSM]]</div>BottomOuthttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Female_dominationFemale domination2008-03-02T17:44:19Z<p>BottomOut: /* External links */</p>
<hr />
<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
<br />
Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]].<br />
<br />
The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
<br />
Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
<br />
Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
<br />
More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
<br />
In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
<br />
== References and further reading ==<br />
<br />
*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
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*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination.'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
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== See also ==<br />
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*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elsie Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://ladymisato.t35.com/ Real Women Don't Do Housework]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
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<div>[[Image:Pedestal01.jpg|thumb|250px|Femdom at club [[Pedestal]]]]<br />
'''Femdom''', or '''female dominance''', refers to [[BDSM]] activities where the [[dominant]] partner is female. A female dominant is often called a [[dominatrix]], domme or domina. Professional dominatrices (also called "pro dommes") in particular give themselves a named persona, with aristocratic or deific associations, thus "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Goddess", etc.<br />
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Femdom scenarios are less common than maledom scenarios in BDSM fiction, but can be found in fiction such as ''[[Venus in Furs]]'', ''[[The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty]]'' and the works of the artist [[Sardax]].<br />
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The work of the artist [[Eric Stanton]] frequently depicts situations where men are being sexually dominated by women. [[Bettie Page]] is a famous American fetish model who was often photographed posing as a dominatrix with a whip while wearing fetish attire such as [[Stocking fetishism|stockings]], [[corset]]s, and high heeled shoes or boots.<br />
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Naturally, femdom activities may draw on all areas of [[BDSM]], but there tends to be an association with [[wikipedia:radical_feminism|radical feminism]], whether seriously or fantastically. This can lead to apparent paradoxes, such as the humiliation of men by [[feminisation]], though it is readily resolved by seeing this as disclaiming traditional [[Gender role|gender associations]], and transference of coded images of weakness onto men. [[Strap-on]] play plays a significant part in this as well. The inverse of this is of course to glorify the feminine, for example in [[panty fetishism]] and [[foot worship]].<br />
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Similarly, [[erotic humiliation]] can focus on the inadequacy of a male sub's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Thus cock and ball torture ([[CBT]]), verbal humiliation, and [[Erotic sexual denial|orgasm denial]].<br />
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Light female domination scenarios may involve [[ageplay]], [[erotic spanking]], and [[body worship]], usually [[foot worship]].<br />
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More intense and heavier female domination scenarios may involve [[facesitting]] or [[smothering]], which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female giving the sub [[anal sex]] using a [[strap-on]] [[dildo]]. Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, [[caning]], heavy [[torture]] and heavy [[whipping]].<br />
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In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights by the slave. Acts may involve [[spitting domination]], [[watersports]] a.k.a [[golden shower]]s, [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s. (However, in practice [[brown shower]]s and [[roman shower]]s are not very common.)<br />
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== References and further reading ==<br />
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*Lorelei, ''The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance.'' [[Greenery Press]], 2000. ISBN 1890159190.<br />
<br />
*Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan, ''The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women.'' Citadel Press, 2000. ISBN 0806520892.<br />
<br />
*Elise Sutton, ''Female Domination.'' Lulu.com, 2003. ISBN 1411603257.<br />
<br />
== See also ==<br />
<br />
*[[BDSM]] &nbsp; [[BDSM Roles]]<br />
*[[Dominatrix]] &nbsp; [[Domme]]<br />
*[[Feminisation]]<br />
*[[Male domination]]<br />
*[[Female submission]]<br />
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==External links==<br />
* [http://www.disciplinarywivesclub.com/ The Disciplinary Wives Club]<br />
* [http://www.femalesuperiority.com/ Elsie Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority]<br />
* [http://www.femdomart.net/gallery.htm Femdom cartoons]<br />
* [http://www.femdomretro.com/gallery.htm Femdom Retro]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ClassicDominants Classic Dominants]<br />
* [http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ItsDominantsofDistinction Dominants of Distinction]<br />
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