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<div>A small community of people into [[BDSM]] or [[d/s]] or [[Leather]] whose bonds often mimic that of a birth family. The Leather Family often has a "Head of Family", and some sort of [[hierarchy]] between members.<br />
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[[Category:AltSex]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=RedRed2005-07-05T04:08:49Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>1. A commonly used safeword<br />
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2. Color in the [[Gay Hanky Code]] to indicate interest in [[fisting]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=SafewordSafeword2005-07-05T04:08:03Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A '''safeword''' is a codeword or series of codewords that are sometimes used in [[BDSM]] to mean that a bottom or submissive is reaching a limit or for the Top/Dom to''stop'' the sceneplay. Safewords are agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants. Many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events.<br />
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This is generally used so that the [[bottom (BDSM)|bottom]] can scream "no, stop", etc. as much as s/he wants without really meaning it, and still have a way of indicating a serious desire that the scene stops. Accordingly, a safeword is usually a word that the person would not ordinarily say during sex, such as [[red]], ''tree'', ''anomaly'', or even ''safeword''.<br />
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Some partners have different gradations of safeword, such as [[yellow]] to mean "that hurts" or "stop doing that" without stopping the scene, and ''red'' to mean "let's stop the scene". In other circumstances the safeword may not be a "word" at all, but a signal like dropping a ball or similar, or making three clear and rhythmic grunts or vigorous motions in the case of a person who is [[gagged]] or [[sexual bondage|bound]]. A common convention of tops putting a finger in the bottom's hand is used if the bottom has become non-verbal, such as may happen as they reach [[subspace (BDSM)|subspace]]. In this scenario the bottom squeezes a pre-determined number of times to indicate OK. <br />
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A common request from the top to the bottom, to check on their status, is to ask "What is your color?" In addition to red and yellow, green is a common safe word used to indicate, "I'm fine."<br />
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In the case of [[sexual role-play]], some simply drop out of character to safeword, such as having the [[submissive]] address the [[dominant]] by his/her first name.<br />
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While many in the [[BDSM]] community consider safewords an essential part of safe play, there is a significant contingent that does not have any such term in their relationships or their play. Some of these people simply use the word ''Stop''. Others rely on the [[top]] to monitor the condition of the bottom and stop if necessary, at their discretion. In such circumstances the bottom or submissive must have consented ''not'' to have control over the duration of the scene in advance.<br />
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Interestingly some of those who recommend safewords do not, themselves, use them though this is not often discussed in public. There is an undercurrent assumption that play without safewords is an "advanced" technique and should not be advocated in the hearing of novices. BDSM activity without a safeword is regarded by many as inadvisable and dangerous.<br />
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If used, the safeword should be respected unconditionally. After the bottom uses the safeword, the activity or entire scene is over, inflicting pain or any physical forcing should be stopped and all restraints should be removed immediately. Ignoring safewords is considered dishonorable and a deeply immoral practice in the BDSM community and can lead to criminal charges. (The "yellow safeword" mentioned above is however not obligatory.)<br />
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[[Category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=SafewordSafeword2005-07-05T04:07:48Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A '''safeword''' is a codeword or series of codewords that are sometimes used in [[BDSM]] to mean that a bottom or submissive is reaching a limit or for the Top/Dom to''stop'' the sceneplay. Safewords are agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants. Many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events.<br />
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This is generally used so that the [[bottom (BDSM)|bottom]] can scream "no, stop", etc. as much as s/he wants without really meaning it, and still have a way of indicating a serious desire that the scene stops. Accordingly, a safeword is usually a word that the person would not ordinarily say during sex, such as [[''red'']], ''tree'', ''anomaly'', or even ''safeword''.<br />
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Some partners have different gradations of safeword, such as [[yellow]] to mean "that hurts" or "stop doing that" without stopping the scene, and ''red'' to mean "let's stop the scene". In other circumstances the safeword may not be a "word" at all, but a signal like dropping a ball or similar, or making three clear and rhythmic grunts or vigorous motions in the case of a person who is [[gagged]] or [[sexual bondage|bound]]. A common convention of tops putting a finger in the bottom's hand is used if the bottom has become non-verbal, such as may happen as they reach [[subspace (BDSM)|subspace]]. In this scenario the bottom squeezes a pre-determined number of times to indicate OK. <br />
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A common request from the top to the bottom, to check on their status, is to ask "What is your color?" In addition to red and yellow, green is a common safe word used to indicate, "I'm fine."<br />
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In the case of [[sexual role-play]], some simply drop out of character to safeword, such as having the [[submissive]] address the [[dominant]] by his/her first name.<br />
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While many in the [[BDSM]] community consider safewords an essential part of safe play, there is a significant contingent that does not have any such term in their relationships or their play. Some of these people simply use the word ''Stop''. Others rely on the [[top]] to monitor the condition of the bottom and stop if necessary, at their discretion. In such circumstances the bottom or submissive must have consented ''not'' to have control over the duration of the scene in advance.<br />
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Interestingly some of those who recommend safewords do not, themselves, use them though this is not often discussed in public. There is an undercurrent assumption that play without safewords is an "advanced" technique and should not be advocated in the hearing of novices. BDSM activity without a safeword is regarded by many as inadvisable and dangerous.<br />
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If used, the safeword should be respected unconditionally. After the bottom uses the safeword, the activity or entire scene is over, inflicting pain or any physical forcing should be stopped and all restraints should be removed immediately. Ignoring safewords is considered dishonorable and a deeply immoral practice in the BDSM community and can lead to criminal charges. (The "yellow safeword" mentioned above is however not obligatory.)<br />
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[[Category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=SafewordSafeword2005-07-05T04:06:31Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A '''safeword''' is a codeword or series of codewords that are sometimes used in [[BDSM]] to mean that a bottom or submissive is reaching a limit or for the Top/Dom to''stop'' the sceneplay. Safewords are agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants. Many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events.<br />
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This is generally used so that the [[bottom (BDSM)|bottom]] can scream "no, stop", etc. as much as s/he wants without really meaning it, and still have a way of indicating a serious desire that the scene stops. Accordingly, a safeword is usually a word that the person would not ordinarily say during sex, such as ''red'', ''tree'', ''anomaly'', or even ''safeword''.<br />
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Some partners have different gradations of safeword, such as [[yellow]] to mean "that hurts" or "stop doing that" without stopping the scene, and ''red'' to mean "let's stop the scene". In other circumstances the safeword may not be a "word" at all, but a signal like dropping a ball or similar, or making three clear and rhythmic grunts or vigorous motions in the case of a person who is [[gagged]] or [[sexual bondage|bound]]. A common convention of tops putting a finger in the bottom's hand is used if the bottom has become non-verbal, such as may happen as they reach [[subspace (BDSM)|subspace]]. In this scenario the bottom squeezes a pre-determined number of times to indicate OK. <br />
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A common request from the top to the bottom, to check on their status, is to ask "What is your color?" In addition to red and yellow, green is a common safe word used to indicate, "I'm fine."<br />
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In the case of [[sexual role-play]], some simply drop out of character to safeword, such as having the [[submissive]] address the [[dominant]] by his/her first name.<br />
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While many in the [[BDSM]] community consider safewords an essential part of safe play, there is a significant contingent that does not have any such term in their relationships or their play. Some of these people simply use the word ''Stop''. Others rely on the [[top]] to monitor the condition of the bottom and stop if necessary, at their discretion. In such circumstances the bottom or submissive must have consented ''not'' to have control over the duration of the scene in advance.<br />
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Interestingly some of those who recommend safewords do not, themselves, use them though this is not often discussed in public. There is an undercurrent assumption that play without safewords is an "advanced" technique and should not be advocated in the hearing of novices. BDSM activity without a safeword is regarded by many as inadvisable and dangerous.<br />
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If used, the safeword should be respected unconditionally. After the bottom uses the safeword, the activity or entire scene is over, inflicting pain or any physical forcing should be stopped and all restraints should be removed immediately. Ignoring safewords is considered dishonorable and a deeply immoral practice in the BDSM community and can lead to criminal charges. (The "yellow safeword" mentioned above is however not obligatory.)<br />
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[[Category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=YellowYellow2005-07-05T04:05:55Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>1. A commonly used [[safeword]] to indicate a need to "slow down" the intensity of an activity.<br />
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2. The color used in the [[Gay Hanky Code]] to indicate interest in watersports.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=WatersportsWatersports2005-07-05T04:04:46Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>'''Urolagnia''' (also known as '''urophilia''') is a [[paraphilia]] involving sexual attraction to [[urine]].<br />
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People with urolagnia often like to urinate in public, or urinate on, or be urinated on by, other people, and may drink the urine. Some like to watch others doing these things. These activities are often described by the euphemisms "'''golden showers'''" or "'''watersports'''". <br />
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It is generally considered harmless, as the urine of healthy individuals is sterile. However, a small risk exists if there is disease present, or bacterial infection of the urethra. There may also be secondary effects, such as skin rashes in individuals sensitive to urine. HIV can be transmitted in urine.<br />
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In the absence of STDs, urine is generally safe to drink in small quantities. The main dangers are the high salt and mineral content. The high salt content usually does not pose a problem if the urine is sufficiently diluted and not consumed in mass quantities. One may also wish to drink some water after consuming urine in order to mitigate the effect of the high salt. The person whose urine will be consumed may also wish to drink some water (or diet soda, see below) several hours before the act in order to dilute the urine.<br />
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Since artificial sweeteners are excreted in urine, consuming artificial sweetener before urine play can lend a sweet taste to the urine. Drinking diet soda, or other beverages containing artifical sweetener, before urine play will have the dual effect of diluting the urine and sweetening it. However, if you taste sugar in you or your partner's urine and you or your partner have not consumed artificial sweetener, this may be a sign of diabetes and you should see a doctor.<br />
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The participants should use caution or avoid drinking urine if one or both of them are taking vitamin or mineral supplements or medication, since many of these are excreted in urine.<br />
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Watersports is signified by [[yellow]] in the [[Gay Hanky Code]]<br />
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[[category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=FlaggingFlagging2005-07-05T04:03:30Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>Wearing specific clothing, insignia, or accesories to indicate interest in specific sexual/[[BDSM]] activity.<br />
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*[[Gay Hanky Code]]<br />
*[[Key Codes]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=LeatherfolkLeatherfolk2005-07-05T04:01:29Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>#REDIRECT [[Leather Community]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Leather_CommunityLeather Community2005-07-05T04:00:39Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>People into [[BDSM]].<br />
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Mainly identified as "Leather" by [[gay]] and [[lesbian]] [[BDSM]] practitioners.<br />
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*[[Queer]]<br />
*[[Leatherfolk]]<br />
*[[Leatherdyke]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Gay_Hanky_CodeGay Hanky Code2005-07-05T03:58:39Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A color code, used mainly in the [[Gay]] and Gay [[Leather Community]] to indicate what activities one is interested in.<br />
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To signal one's interest to potential partners, a handkerchief of the corresponding color is worn in the rear pocket. The side one wears it on signals whether the wearer is interested in the activity as a [[top]] or as a [[bottom]].<br />
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*[[Flagging]]<br />
*[[Key Codes]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Gay_Hanky_CodeGay Hanky Code2005-07-05T03:57:18Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A color code, used mainly in the [[Gay]] and Gay [[Leather]] communities to indicate what activities one is interested in.<br />
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To signal one's interest to potential partners, a handkerchief of the corresponding color is worn in the rear pocket. The side one wears it on signals whether the wearer is interested in the activity as a [[top]] or as a [[bottom]].<br />
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See also <br />
*[[Flagging]]<br />
*[[Key Codes]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=PurplePurple2005-07-05T03:54:05Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>The colour a bottom can turn when beaten for a long time. Also the colour tits or balls turn when bound tightly.<br />
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In [[Gay Hanky Code]], the color that represents piercing.<br />
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[[Category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=PurplePurple2005-07-05T03:53:51Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>The colour a bottom can turn when beaten for a long time. Also the colour tits or balls turn when bound tightly.<br />
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In *[[Gay Hanky Code]], the color that represents piercing.<br />
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[[Category:BDSM]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Switch_(sex)Switch (sex)2005-07-05T03:48:46Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>One who enjoys both giving and recieving of sensation in sex.<br />
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Gay male - the "fucker" and the "fucked".<br />
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Pitcher<br />
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Bottom (sex)</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=GirlGirl2005-07-05T03:43:32Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A '''girl''' is a female-gendered person.<br />
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''Girl'' is quite often used to refer to a female [[submissive]] in a [[D/s]] relationship, a [[slave]] in an [[Master/Slave|M/s]] relationship or or a female [[bottom (BDSM)|bottom]] in an [[Sadomasochism|SM]] [[scene]].<br />
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*[[Slave-girl]]<br />
*[[Leather Girl Movement]]<br />
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[[Category:Women]]</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Sex_changeSex change2005-05-11T23:57:51Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>Physical and/or legal transition from one social sex to the other.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=GenderqueerGenderqueer2005-05-11T23:56:52Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>Defying the binary gender system.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=AndrogynousAndrogynous2005-05-11T23:55:04Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>Having a blend of gender traits of male and female, with neither one predominant.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=GirlGirl2005-05-11T22:52:17Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A female-gendered person, usually submissive or bottom in d/s relationships.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=PainPain2005-05-11T22:51:13Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>Intense sensation, unwelcome and usually avoided by non-masochists.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=SadistSadist2005-05-11T22:50:29Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A person whose sexual fulfillment is increased by delivering intense sensation (usually classified as pain).</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=MasochistMasochist2005-05-11T22:49:49Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A person whose sexual fulfillment is increased by receiving intense sensation (usually classified as pain).</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=MasochistMasochist2005-05-11T22:49:23Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A person whose sexual fulfillment is increased by receiving intense sensation, or pain.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=MasochistMasochist2005-05-11T22:49:02Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A person whose sexual flfillment is increased by receiving intense sensation, or pain.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=Leather_FamilyLeather Family2005-05-11T22:46:34Z<p>RightHandImp: </p>
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<div>A small community of people into BDSM or d/s or Leather whose bonds often mimic that of a birth family. The Leather Family often has a "Head of Family", and some sort of hierarchy between members.</div>RightHandImphttp://wipipedia.org/index.php?title=GagGag2005-05-11T22:43:22Z<p>RightHandImp: /* Penis Gags */</p>
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<div>===Overview===<br />
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A gag is a device designed to cover or be inserted into the mouth to prevent the wearer from talking or crying out. in [[BDSM]] gags have a very strong symbolic value. They prevent the [[submissive]] from talking or communicating with the [[dominant]] in anything but the most basic way. This enhances the loss of control that the sub experiences in a scene which in turn can magnify the [[D/S]] dynamic between the players. The gag is also an invasion the sub's body which is another strong D/S signal. <br />
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There are a number of different designs of gags which are used in BDSM play.<br />
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[[Image:gags_ball_01.JPG|thumbnail|right|Ball gag]]<br />
===Ball Gags===<br />
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A ball gags as the name suggests is based on a ball which is forced into the subs mouth and then held in place by a stap running through it and then tied behind the back of the neck. Ball gags are the most common type of gag used in BDSM play. They are very effecting at preventing the sub from talking. When strapped in tightly they are almost impossible to spit out. Visually they look very dramatic, distorting the face and forcing the mouth open. From the persepctive of the wearer they also feel very submissive and it is impossible to forget that you are wearing one. <br />
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A less common design is to have the ball attached to a leather plate which covers the mouth and is held in place by a strap. Gags of this design are less effective than the tradition ball gag as the sub is more able to spit the gag out, they also tend to be less effective in silencing the sub. They do, however, work very well with [[hood]]s as they require a much smaller mouth opening than a traditional ball gag and the hood helps keep the gag in place.<br />
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Ball gags come in different sizes to suit different mouth sizes. Using the correct sized gag with greatly enhance the experience of wearing it. Too smaller gag will be ineffective at silencing the sub and the visual impact will be diminished, using too big a gag will put the subs jaw under starin which will quickly become painful. There is also a real risk that the sub might choke or retch.<br />
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[[Image:gags_bit_01.JPG|thumbnail|right|Bit gag]]<br />
===Bit Gags===<br />
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A bit gag is based on a horses bit and is often used in [[pony play]]. As a tool for silence a sub it is much less effetive than a ball gag howevr the visual impact is as great (some might say greater) than a ball gag. The risks of wearing a bit gag are much less than a ball gag since it does not obstruct the airway.<br />
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[[Image:gags_penis_01.JPG|thumbnail|right|Penis gag]]<br />
===Penis Gags===<br />
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A penis gag is a gag based on a rubber penis or dildo (usually only a few cm long) which is attached to a leather plate (to prevent it being swallowed) and forced into the subs mouth. Particular care must be taken when playing with penis gags because of their size then tend to get pushed further back in the mouth. This means that there is a much greater risk of the wearer choking. In my opinion penis gags are better as an idea than in practice. They can move around the mouth much more than a ball gag and that makes them less effecting in gagging the submissive and making it easier for the sub to spit the gag out. They can be made more effective by using them in conjunction with a [[hood]] or a ring gag.<br />
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[[Image:gags_ring_01.JPG|thumbnail|right|Ring gag]]<br />
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===Ring Gags===<br />
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Ring gags are similar in concept to a ball gag but replace the ball with a metal ring which forces the subs mouth open. In BDSM play the main reason for doing this is to make it impossible for the sub to refuse to accept any thing place in his/her mouth (usually someones penis!). This makes ring gags particually effective in [[scene]]s that have a strong [[D/S]] element.<br />
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[[Image:Gags inflatable.jpg|thumbnail|right|Inflatable gag]]<br />
===Inflatable Gags===<br />
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An inflatable gag is a rubber balloon (often attached to a leather plate to hold it in place) with a valve and a pump. Once inserted into the subs mouth it is inflated to fill the subs mouth in much the same way as a ball gag. Inflatable gags are very effective in silencing the wearer but they also block the airway and for this reason the sub should never be left alone while wearing it.<br />
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===See Also===<br />
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*[[Head Harness]]<br />
*[[Hoods]]<br />
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