Clothed female, naked male
CFNM, or Clothed Female, Naked Male is a term for a paraphilia involving one or more nude men and one or more clothed women. It is generally used as a label for pictorial erotica or pornography, or a sexual fantasy depicting such a scenario.
The general category of "CFNM" is fairly broad, encompassing several different types of scenario. The two most common subdivisions of the genre involve either an activity under the rubric of female domination or exhibitionism; combination of the two is somewhat rare, although several web sites cater to both subgenres separately.
CFNM as female domination
CFNM is a commonly practiced by dominant women and submissive men. In some variations, the nude man may be "tortured" (via methods such as whipping, cock and ball torture or anal penetration via a strap-on dildo); in others, he may be teased or forced to gratify one or more females but denied sexual release himself. It is also common for a Domme to have her submissive or slave perform house work or wait on her and other females while she and her friends remained clothed, but the male is naked. The naked male may also wear a collar, be kept in a chastity device, be free of body hair or have humiliating words or phrases written on his body while naked.
The types of clothes worn by the Domme around a naked submissive man vary. Usually, in female domination erotica or pornography, she will be dressed as a stunning dominatrix in fetish clothes, while in real life, the Domme is more likely to simply wear ordinary clothes while her submissive or slave is naked.
CFNM as exhibitionism
Alternatively, CFNM aficionados may enjoy seeing men expose themselves to women in a non-humiliating context. While this can include flashing, a sizeable subgenre involves women watching male strippers. Several successful web sites are dedicated to depictions of drunken female spectators engaging in fellatio or sexual intercourse with male dancers (usually under the label of a "girls' night out", "hen party" or "bachelorette party").
This aspect of the genre may appeal to the male "flasher" who does not wish to risk flashing in public; exposure via the web can be seen as a safer way to fulfill his desire. Over recent years the "bachelorette" parties have broken down the strict clothed woman/naked man side of the genre, as some photographs or videos from these parties show as many or even more naked women than naked men.
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