MAKE THE TIME TO LEARN ABOUT THE FEMALE ANATOMY---EVEN IF YOU ARE A WOMAN. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER
A great deal can be done with female genitalia. Some women love having clothes pegs on their pussy lips; some love light whipping on their outer labia, or even their clitoris. Sometimes body piercings can be used for bondage; labia piercings can hold a pussy open very delightfully, or clit hood piercings can be tied up out of the way with thread, leaving the clit naked and exposed. Some women like soft fur on their pussy; others like to be alternately soothed and tormented until they can stand no more.
Health and Safety
Do NOT blow into the vagina, whatever else you do.
Don't leave clamps on very long until you know how much she can take (and how it will feel to her the next day when the scene is over).
Too much of one kind of sensation can become irritating quickly; change the stimulation, keep your bottom aroused and surprised.
There are all sorts of things that can be used on female genitals; one article I have lists "bamboo skewers, candles, cheese graters, clips, flyswatter, ice cubes, knives, leather thongs, massage bongers, rabbit fur, ropes, silk, spoons, towels, weights, and whips" as items that can be useful in giving your bottom's genitals a ride they won't forget. (And no, you don't do this until you cause real damage, any more than you do with male genitals. Don't be scraping, scabbing, or scarring--these are the most sensitive parts of the body you're playing with!)
Basic Tools of Torture and Touch
- (Pegs) Clothes pegs
- Wooden spoon
- Sharp and pointy
- Hanging weights
- Pumice stone for abrasion
Communication is paramount in all genitorture; women's pussies vary as much as any other part of women's bodies (or more), and responses will vary equally dramatically. This is the only time the rhythm method really works. Keep the rhythm and build the intensity, though if anything the top needs to go even more slowly than in any other kind of sensation scene, as the sensations will be more intense and focused.
Another thing to remember is that for many women, a common pre-orgasmic response is for the clitoris to retreat into its hood. If you are giving some very delicious sensation (possibly combined with some just-right pain) and her clit disappears, DON'T STOP! (Unless you want to avoid her orgasm... don't push this too far, unless your bottom's feet are tied down--she may kick.)
Much of this information is collated from the following sites: