Advice: Strap-on dildo

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A strap-on is the harness that holds your dildo, usually attached to the Mons Pubis (although, there are harnesses that can be worn on the thigh). The harness allows a woman to use a dildo as if it were her own penis (AKA a "Strapadictomi" sic), or allows a man the opportunity to either double penetrate their partner or simply use it in place of their own penis.

Most Dildos give no "feedback" sensation, and therefore, can be bloody hard work to use! (Gave me more respect for mens' abilities!)It can be very tiring on the arms holding yourself up(opinion of Spicecat).

A good source of strap on harnesses and helpful experienced staff is Sh! The sex store for Women in East London.

Also in East London, (Obviously the Dildo Capital of Europe!), Babes 'n' Horny. These guys make their own beautiful Silicone dildos, in too many colours to count, and have an expert saddlemaker on board stitching up their harnesses. Mistress Nikki buys dildos from no other! Having had several latex ones break on her, she would rather invest the money in a top quality, UK produced product.

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You make them do the work. If you lie back let them ride your cock, you get great visuals and better friction. Off course this also means you can use your or your partners fingers as well.

Of course, for deeper action, I might change position and take control but there's loads of positions to keep the effort low but the emotionals high.

I -- demolitionrd -- have many strap-ons but only my vac-u-lok qualifies as a cock. It gives great control as the vacuum secures the cock very firmly in place and a nice selection of very life-like phalluses.