Deflation

Deflation in a BDSM context means making a male's erect penis limp without allowing him to orgasm. It is an important tool in inducing sexual frustration.

This may be done either directly (applying ice cubes or a cold wet flannel is an effective technique) or indirectly (for example, by humiliation or very unpleasant odours).

See also

• Erotic sexual denial
• Ruined orgasm
• Orgasm control
• Tie and tease
• Tease and denial