Humiliation
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In '''[[BDSM]]''', '''[[humiliation]]''' is one psychological technique a [[Top (BDSM)|top]] may use on a [[Bottom (BDSM)|bottom]]. It is generally considered [[edgeplay]] because it touches strong emotional buttons. | In '''[[BDSM]]''', '''[[humiliation]]''' is one psychological technique a [[Top (BDSM)|top]] may use on a [[Bottom (BDSM)|bottom]]. It is generally considered [[edgeplay]] because it touches strong emotional buttons. | ||
| − | Humiliation is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context. While in a [[dominant]]-[[submissive]] scene or relationship, the submissive takes a subordinate role and may be called "[[slave]]", "[[boy]]", "dog" or something similar. The submissive may also make displays of [[subservience]], such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, only speaking when spoken to, etc. | + | Humiliation is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context. While in a [[dominant]]-[[submissive]] [[scene]] or relationship, the submissive takes a subordinate role and may be called "[[slave]]", "[[boy]]", "dog" or something similar. The submissive may also make displays of [[subservience]], such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, only speaking when spoken to, etc. |
Humiliation play can involve physical and/or verbal methods. Some seek to be demeaned by acting a role, while others enjoy to be 'tonguelashed' and to be constantly told of their low status, and even be made to repeat this back to the humiliator. | Humiliation play can involve physical and/or verbal methods. Some seek to be demeaned by acting a role, while others enjoy to be 'tonguelashed' and to be constantly told of their low status, and even be made to repeat this back to the humiliator. | ||
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Depending on the roles and persons involved, terms like "[[slut]]", "tart", "bitch" and "[[whore]]" may or may not be considered humiliation. For some people, such names are a way of achieving [[ego reduction]] or getting over [[sexual inhibition]]s. | Depending on the roles and persons involved, terms like "[[slut]]", "tart", "bitch" and "[[whore]]" may or may not be considered humiliation. For some people, such names are a way of achieving [[ego reduction]] or getting over [[sexual inhibition]]s. | ||
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[[Sexual roleplaying]] may or may not involve humiliation. For example, one bottom who plays the part of a dog may enjoy being mock-forced into it and the top will emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal. Another dog-player would rather play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation. | [[Sexual roleplaying]] may or may not involve humiliation. For example, one bottom who plays the part of a dog may enjoy being mock-forced into it and the top will emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal. Another dog-player would rather play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation. | ||
Revision as of 13:56, 14 August 2005
In BDSM, humiliation is one psychological technique a top may use on a bottom. It is generally considered edgeplay because it touches strong emotional buttons.
Humiliation is a highly subjective issue, and depends greatly on context. While in a dominant-submissive scene or relationship, the submissive takes a subordinate role and may be called "slave", "boy", "dog" or something similar. The submissive may also make displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes, walking a pace behind the dominant, only speaking when spoken to, etc.
Humiliation play can involve physical and/or verbal methods. Some seek to be demeaned by acting a role, while others enjoy to be 'tonguelashed' and to be constantly told of their low status, and even be made to repeat this back to the humiliator.
However, a dominant may take care over insulting the submissive. Terms like "fat", "ugly", "stupid" or "worthless" could be considered abuse if this is not part of the understanding the top and bottom have negotiated for their role play scene.
Depending on the roles and persons involved, terms like "slut", "tart", "bitch" and "whore" may or may not be considered humiliation. For some people, such names are a way of achieving ego reduction or getting over sexual inhibitions.
Sexual roleplaying may or may not involve humiliation. For example, one bottom who plays the part of a dog may enjoy being mock-forced into it and the top will emphasize the lowness of the bottom's status as an animal. Another dog-player would rather play the role of the dog without any element of humiliation.
One such form of sexual roleplaying is objectification, where the bottom is cast in the role of an object.
