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A '''dominatrix''' is a woman who takes the [[Domination and submission|dominant]] role in [[BDSM|sado-masochistic]] sexual practices. The male equivalent is a '''dominant''' or '''master'''.  
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A '''professional dominant''' is a [[sex worker]] who performs the [[domination and submission|dominant]] role in [[BDSM]] activities in exchange for money. Most professional dominants do not have sex in exchange for money, and do not regard themselves as [[prostitute]]s.
  
Although most dominatrices are not, necessarily, [[professional dominant]]s ("[[pro domme]]s"), and only dominate people that they are in a relationship with, most [[professional dominant]]s are dominatrixes (i.e. female). This may be related to the stigma associated with male [[submissive (BDSM)|submissive]]s, and the difficulty of some male submissives in finding compatible female partners.
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Most professional dominants are female, as most customers of professional dominants are [[submissive]] [[heterosexual]] males who choose to be dominated by a member of the opposite sex. However, there are also male professional dominants serving [[gay]] men, and both straight and gay women can also be customers of professional dominants.
A dominatrix who is NOT a [[pro domme]] is known as a [[lifestyle dominatrix]].
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Note that a dominatrix does not necessarily dominate a male partner; a dominatrix may well have a female submissive.
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A female dominant is known as a [[dominatrix]], and the term is often used as a synonym for a female professional dominant. A ''pro domme'' is another term used for a female professional dominant.
  
The term ''domme'' is a coined pseudo-French female variation of the slang ''dom'' (short for ''dominant'').  There is confusion on its pronunciation, with some pronouncing it identically to ''dom'' and some pronouncing the final ''e'' as a second syllable, e.g. saying ''dom-MAY'' or ''DOM-may''. It appears that more [[BDSM]] authorities prefer the first pronunciation (identical to ''dom''), by analogy to one-syllable French-derived words like ''femme'' or ''blonde''. [http://mistressmatisse.blogspot.com/2004/05/bdsm-word-of-day-domme.html] [http://www.fhp-inc.com/writings/essential_domme.html] [http://www.sensuoussadie.com/sadiescolumns/writing/internetwriting.htm] [http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/intro_terms.php3]
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A professional dominant may either work by themselves (often with a maid or minder present) or in an establishment with other professional dominants.
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Professional dominants advertise in specialist [[contact magazine]]s, as well as on the Web; there are a number of Web-based directories for professional dominants.
  
Most ''famous'' dominatrices are professional dominants, since most other people's sex lives remain private.
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Services provided by professional dominants include:
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* [[Sexual bondage]]
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* [[Flagellation]]
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* [[Verbal humiliation]]
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* [[Intimate examination]]s
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* Anal penetration with [[strap-on dildo]]s and [[butt plug]]s
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* [[Roleplay (BDSM)]]
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* [[Feminization]]
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* [[Watersports (BDSM)|Watersports]]
  
Notable dominatrices:
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Typically, the services of professional dominants are booked in advance, as with other professional services.
* The [[19th century]] British dominatrix Mrs [[Theresa Berkley]], inventor of the [[Berkley Horse]].
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Fictional dominatrices:
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* The film [[Preaching to the Perverted]], starring Guinevere Turner, depicts a dominatrix.
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* The drama [[CSI: Crime Scene Investigation]] has featured a recurring professional dominatrix character ''Lady Heather'', who is depicted in a sympathetic manner.
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* The film ''[[Eating Raoul]]'' features Doris the Dominatrix, who, when off the job, is actually a married mother.
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*The fictional film ''[[Maîtresse (film)|Maîtresse]]'', starring [[Gérard Depardieu]] and [[Bulle Ogier]], depicted a professional dominant.
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==See also ==
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== Depictions of professional dominants ==
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The fictional film ''[[Maîtresse (film)|Maîtresse]]'', starring [[Gérard Depardieu]] and [[Bulle Ogier]], depicted a professional dominant.
  
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Nick Broomfield's documentary ''[[Fetishes (documentary)|Fetishes]]'' depicted the activities of a number of professional dominants at [[Pandora's Box (BDSM)|Pandora's Box]], a professional domination house in New York.
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== See also ==
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* [[Dominatrix]]
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* [[Domination Directory International]]
 
* [[Female domination]]
 
* [[Female domination]]
* [[Professional dominant]]
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* [[Fetishes (documentary)|''Fetishes'']] (documentary)
* [[Fetishes (documentary)]]
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==External links==
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== External links:==
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* [http://www.sexuality.org/l/wh/mrw.html Interviews with Professional Dominants]
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* [http://gloria-brame.com/domidea/prodomop.htm Two essays on the prodomme experience]
 
* [http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/femdom.html  The Dominatrix in Print and Other Media] - detailed bibliography
 
* [http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/femdom.html  The Dominatrix in Print and Other Media] - detailed bibliography
* [http://www.smileandactnice.com/life/itsaliving/dominatrix/ It's a living: Dominatrix] - professional domme article
 
* [http://dir.salon.com/people/feature/2000/04/20/teendom/index.html ''Salon'' article: "I Was a Teenage Dominatrix"] - professional domme article
 
  
 
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[[fr:Dominant professionnel]]

Revision as of 10:17, 15 March 2005

A professional dominant is a sex worker who performs the dominant role in BDSM activities in exchange for money. Most professional dominants do not have sex in exchange for money, and do not regard themselves as prostitutes.

Most professional dominants are female, as most customers of professional dominants are submissive heterosexual males who choose to be dominated by a member of the opposite sex. However, there are also male professional dominants serving gay men, and both straight and gay women can also be customers of professional dominants.

A female dominant is known as a dominatrix, and the term is often used as a synonym for a female professional dominant. A pro domme is another term used for a female professional dominant.

A professional dominant may either work by themselves (often with a maid or minder present) or in an establishment with other professional dominants. Professional dominants advertise in specialist contact magazines, as well as on the Web; there are a number of Web-based directories for professional dominants.

Services provided by professional dominants include:

Typically, the services of professional dominants are booked in advance, as with other professional services.

Depictions of professional dominants

The fictional film Maîtresse, starring Gérard Depardieu and Bulle Ogier, depicted a professional dominant.

Nick Broomfield's documentary Fetishes depicted the activities of a number of professional dominants at Pandora's Box, a professional domination house in New York.

See also

External links:

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