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| − | In the terms of [[BDSM]] scenes or interactions, a '''bottom''' or '''submissive''' refers to the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene. This term is associated with being on the receiving end of bondage, discipline, and sadism. (Note: this term has significant connotative differences from '''submissive''' or [[ | + | In the terms of [[BDSM]] scenes or interactions, a '''bottom''' or '''submissive''' refers to the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene. This term is associated with being on the receiving end of bondage, discipline, and sadism. (Note: this term has significant connotative differences from '''submissive''' or [[slave]].) They may be involved in such acts as [[sexual bondage|bondage]], [[flogging]], [[humiliation]], or [[servitude (BDSM)|servitude]] from the [[top]]. |
The term originates from a more general use of the word, especially among the [[gay]] male community, to mean receptive partner. See [[bottom (sex)]] for this meaning. | The term originates from a more general use of the word, especially among the [[gay]] male community, to mean receptive partner. See [[bottom (sex)]] for this meaning. | ||
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In order to explore BDSM sex, it is essential to be careful and choose a top who will be responsive to one's needs, feelings, and limits. (See [[safeword]].) Failure to choose a trustworthy top can be very dangerous, and even a trustworthy but overzealous top can inflict severe pain or injury by failing to pay attention to the bottom. | In order to explore BDSM sex, it is essential to be careful and choose a top who will be responsive to one's needs, feelings, and limits. (See [[safeword]].) Failure to choose a trustworthy top can be very dangerous, and even a trustworthy but overzealous top can inflict severe pain or injury by failing to pay attention to the bottom. | ||
| − | In [[Japanese bondage]], a bottom is referred to as ''[[uke]]'', a term from | + | In [[Japanese bondage]], a bottom is referred to as ''[[uke]]'', a term from martial arts. |
==See also== | ==See also== | ||
Revision as of 18:08, 25 March 2005
In the terms of BDSM scenes or interactions, a bottom or submissive refers to the person who takes on the submissive role for the duration of a scene. This term is associated with being on the receiving end of bondage, discipline, and sadism. (Note: this term has significant connotative differences from submissive or slave.) They may be involved in such acts as bondage, flogging, humiliation, or servitude from the top.
The term originates from a more general use of the word, especially among the gay male community, to mean receptive partner. See bottom (sex) for this meaning.
A bottom is not necessarily submissive, and vice versa. At one end of the continuum is a submissive who enjoys taking orders from a dominant but does not receive any physical stimulation. At the other is a bottom who enjoys the intense physical and psychological stimulation but does not submit to the person delivering them.
It should be noted that the bottom is most often the partner who is giving instructions - the top typically tops when, and in the manner, requested by the bottom.
In order to explore BDSM sex, it is essential to be careful and choose a top who will be responsive to one's needs, feelings, and limits. (See safeword.) Failure to choose a trustworthy top can be very dangerous, and even a trustworthy but overzealous top can inflict severe pain or injury by failing to pay attention to the bottom.
In Japanese bondage, a bottom is referred to as uke, a term from martial arts.
