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A '''size queen''' is a woman or man who prefers a larger-than-average [[penis]] in a sexual partner. The term originated in the [[homosexuality|gay]] community in the 1960s, but has in recent years been applied to women as well, as their image becomes more assertive in the media. 

== Controversy ==
The existence of size queens is not in doubt. There are always some people who have a specific preference for certain body shapes and sizes. Any debate is generally about how common such size queens actually are. Also, it may be possible to have a mild preference, but not be termed a size queen. Surveys are still not conclusive, but it appears that the majority of women do not rank penis size as a major factor for interpersonal attractiveness. 

Many view size queens as mere role-play. There may be various motives, such as to put down men or feel dominant. Alternatively, some professional [[dominatrix]]es pretend to be size queens entirely for the sake of their male clients, especially those involved in small penis [[humiliation]], a fetish where the male actually enjoys hearing the woman extol the virtues of larger genitals and ridicules the male's supposed inadequacies. Some question whether most women are truly interested in the size question, and view it as merely a male obsession. This is because the most sensitive of the [[vagina]]l sexual response nerves are in the area closest to the opening, and many women find penetration during intercourse painful when it reaches near the [[cervix]]. A common comment in fora is that the women answering find very large penises uncomfortable, very small penises unsatisfactory, and prefer above average girth to above average length.

== Movie & TV Examples ==

In recent years, jokes and anecdotes about penises and penis size have increased in Western culture. Popular women's shows such as ''Sex and the City'' and ''Ally McBeal'' devoted several episodes to penis size, suggesting that a larger penis is preferable. Critical observers point out, however, that the writers of these shows were largely male, sometimes gay males, so their portrayal of realistic female preferences are suspect. 

Other examples of Hollywood treatments of the issue:
*''[[Wikipedia:Ally McBeal|Ally McBeal]]'' S1, E12, "Cro-Magnon Man" - Ally (Calista Flockhart) falls for a nude model with a huge penis. (story continued in Episodes 13 and 21); S4, E1, "Sex, Lies and Second Thoughts" - Ally breaks up with a man because he has a tiny penis, "like a pop-up chicken thermometer".
*''[[Wikipedia:American Beauty (1999 film)|American Beauty]]'' - Mena Suvari questions her friend about the size of her boyfriend's penis.
*''[[Wikipedia:Boogie Nights|Boogie Nights]]'' - Various females comment on Dirk's penis.
*''Dream Lover'' - Mädchen Amick confesses that's she's cheated on her husband with a guy who has a "huge cock".
*''[[Wikipedia:Foxy Brown (1974 film)|Foxy Brown]]'' - Foxy (Pam Grier) makes fun of "little-dicked white guys".
*''[[Wikipedia:Futurama|Futurama]]'' - Leela, upon spotting Fry's penis, comments on what women had to put up with before Genetic Engineering.
*''Human Nature'' - Patricia Arquette leaves her "tiny penis" boyfriend for a well endowed man.
*''[[Wikipedia:Sex and the City|Sex and the City]]'' - Mr. Big storyline; S2, E18, "Ex and the City" -This time it's a penis that's too big; S2, E2,"The Awful Truth", Samantha (Kim Cattrall) finds it hard to tell her boyfriend that his penis is too small. In another episode Miranda (Cynthia Nixon) says "Women don't care. We care about nice arms, great eyes, a big dick..."
*''[[Wikipedia:The Sweetest Thing|The Sweetest Thing]]'' - Cameron Diaz, Christina Applegate and Selma Blair discuss penis size. In a later scene Cameron Diaz and Christina Applegate are seen with a look of amazement on their faces when they see Selma Blair's boyfriend naked.
*''[[Wikipedia:Caroline in the City|Caroline in the City]]'': Del discovers that Caroline's ex is better endowed than he is, and as a result becomes more anxious in the bedroom.
*''[[Wikipedia:Coupling (TV Series)|Coupling]]'' - Sally (Kate Isitt) becomes interested in Patrick once she finds out that he has a massive penis, she instantly wants to have sex with him, but is conflicted on whether or not to because of his political views. Sally coined the term "Patricked" as the past passive tense of a verb involving sex with Patrick.
*''[[Wikipedia:Moulin Rouge!|Moulin Rouge!]]'' - Nicole Kidman pulls down Ewan Macgregor's trousers and exclaims "big boy!" with a look of delight on her face.

== See also ==
*[[Feminism]]
*[[Humiliation]]
*[[Female dominance]]

== External links ==
* [http://www.lpsg.org Large Penis Support Group] - Male and some female size queens and well-endowed men
* [http://penissizelinks.com/ Penis size link list]

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